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AIBU? Help me settle huge argument with DP re: car

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AnitaManeater · 27/12/2013 11:52

My friend recently offered us her old car at mates rates, basically an 05 plate car for £350. She is swapping to a motability car as her DD is severely disabled and needed a car which her new wheelchair could fit in. My friend was anxious about having tyre kickers round and as a single parent with no mechanical knowledge she was keen to sell to a friend rather than have strangers round. We were lucky enough to be offered first refusal.

We decided it would be a good idea to buy the car to replace DPs. DPs car is 11yrs old with 200k on the clock. it's still on the original clutch and has cost us a huge amount in repairs over last couple of years. Its scruffy inside and to be honest, the next big repair bill on it will be make or break. New car has 50k on the clock and is very tidy, not to mention newer, cheaper to tax and insure.

So we now have new car on the driveway, awaiting the tax disc as it's had to be re registered as a petrol car as it was previous exempt due to disability. DP has now got cold feet and wants to sell it. There is nothing wrong with it, he's just taken against it as it's a Peugeot. I'm fuming. We were lucky to be offered first refusal and I know there were a lot of her other friends interested. I'm particularly angry as he intends to profit from it. Friend is a lone parent on IS and if we don't actually use the car ourselves I feel we have taken the piss out of her generosity.

AIBU or is it a case of once the deal is done it's ours to do with as we please? I see my lovely friend regularly and I'm going to be put in a really awkward position if she asks where it is.

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ComposHat · 27/12/2013 13:56

Oh well done op on standing firm. Oh and check with uou friend if the cam belt has been changed. Modt cars need doing at 60k. Budget to change it eithin the next 10k otherwise it will be curtains when the timing valves hit the inside of the bonnet.

glasgowsteven · 27/12/2013 14:00

"my lovely DH thought that he would sell the car for you, it made X more than you sold it for, so here it is, you are a friend so we wont take a penny from the sale"

and if you have to take the money out the household budget so be it

PacificDingbat · 27/12/2013 14:14

Oh good, he got there himself Smile

Happy driving!

glasgowsteven · 27/12/2013 15:42

Who is the registered keeper of the car? If it is you, just tell him to fuck off and withhold the logbook.

FYI the registered keeper is not the owner - it says that on big letters on the front of the v5/logbook

mayorquimby · 27/12/2013 16:25

I'm with your dh once he's happy to offer it back to your friend for the same price along with a massive apology for the pain before he sells it.

If your friend says no she doesn't want the hassle of selling it and that the deal is done then I don't see a problem with your husband selling it on for whatever he can get.

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