to have not invited this woman?

[StairsInTheNight]

Had a small end of term party with 7 mums from DSs year and their kids. these are the mums that I chat to, text and occasionally go out with, with or without kids.

Am also friends with a few other school mums on Facebook. We say hello and chat but nothing more.

This particular woman organises a lot of whole class stuff, she also meets up with other parents and tags them and stuff and I have never thought anything of it?

I posted an update tagging 4 of my friends and saying thanks had a great night.

This woman then posted a status 'not doing any more school Christmas things, as my kids always miss out' and a sad face.

I feel this is probably aimed at me, can't think of anything else? And I don't dislike her or her kids, but my house is not big enough for loads of people, so I chose the women I really like?

I feel sad that she might be angsting over this and also a bit annoyed, am I being unreasonable and insensitive?

It probably wasn't aimed at you but if it was I think the lady is being a bit silly. Ignore.

It's a fact of life that not everyone is invited to every social function. It's no big deal.

Whether it was aimed at you or not, it was a passive aggressive go at someone which just makes her look like a twat.

I like that I have had a variety of response here. Obviously it can be seen in different ways.

I'm going to ignore it, have changed settings, now going to let it go in the hope that it was completel aimed at someone else because this makes me feel better.

Good plan

Damage limitation :-D