SS is 16 lives with us and we get on really well but last night he had a major strop and is now refusing to talk to me! We were all having dinner and were talking about Christmas presents when SS asked what I was getting him, told him he had already had his presents from us which was £300 earlier in the year towards a football season ticket and then £150 cash last week to buy clothes with (these were both things he had requested for his presents because he doesn't actually need or want anything else). Well this did not go down too well and he said that those were presents from his Dad, he has bought me a Christmas present so is therefore expecting something in return! As far as I am concerned me and his Dad are a couple and the £450 he has had was from both of us, he then started on about how our 5 year old has more presents from us which yes he does but they certainly haven't amounted to £450 in fact not even half of that! He is 5 he wants board games and ninja turtles not money for clothes!
It ended with him storming off saying that he can't believe how out of order I am not buying him anything and he is now not going to give me my present! DH in complete agreement with me and told me to ignore him but he has really made me feel a bit shit like I should have bought him a present from me but then when I think about it that just feels weird! Me and DH wouldn't get our ds separate presents so why would it be different for dss?
So AIBU? Should I go and get him something or just leave him to have his teenage strop?!