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To wonder why people increasingly refer to places not in London as 'in London'

532 replies

redpipe · 15/12/2013 11:23

I genuinely don't understand why people say they live in London when in fact they live in a town within the M25.
Croydon is not in London is it? Nor is Kingston. I never remember people referring to these towns as London years ago. Is this a new thing?

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redpipe · 15/12/2013 11:54

Vivalebeaver they could always say the county they actually live in rather than one they don't though. Grin

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WhatAPallava · 15/12/2013 11:55

I go by postcode....

AGnuMasqueradingAsAReindeer · 15/12/2013 11:56

I'm with Maenad on this one - I'm from just outside the valleys originally... but I suspect a "Londoner" with limited knowledge of South Wales would think I was either from "The Valleys" or Cardiff.

DH is from Kingston-upon-Thames, DM is from Selsdon. They're both v Hmm that I consider both these places to be "in London". DAunt now lives in Billericay. This is "just outside London" in my mind - it must be, because we used to go stay with them if we wanted to do a day trip into London-proper to go sight-seeing.

TSSDNCOP · 15/12/2013 11:56

Bromley etc are only in Kent when one is trying to flog ones semi.

redpipe · 15/12/2013 11:56

In light of the shortage of housing and more and more people being pushed out of London I wonder if London will be extended again. Maybe in a few years everyone south of Manchester could be part of London?

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hercules1 · 15/12/2013 11:56

Sleepingdragon is right. Croydon is part of london.

StealthPolarBear · 15/12/2013 11:56

How can a 'London Borough' not be 'in London'?
That makes no sense to me
(as a northerner who lives in County Durham, but not in Durham :o)

AnnBryce · 15/12/2013 11:57

Because they are in Surrey.

redpipe · 15/12/2013 11:58

stealthPolarbear when it's in surrey?

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AnnBryce · 15/12/2013 11:58

No tube to Croydon, isn't that odd.

AmberLeaf · 15/12/2013 11:58

As far as I am concerned anyone inside the M25 is a cockney

You'd be wrong then!

A cockney is someone born 'within the sound of the Bow bells' Bow which is in east London.

Never insult a SE Londonder by calling them a cockney Grin

deepfriedsage · 15/12/2013 11:59

Middlesex doesn't exist any more, as the London boroughs allowed to be London boroughs? They are not all N, S, E, W postcodes.

redpipe · 15/12/2013 11:59

They have trams too! Wink

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ScarletLady02 · 15/12/2013 11:59

Bromley isn't that near Croydon is it?

AnnBryce · 15/12/2013 12:00

Have they done the Whitgift Centre up in Croydon yet?

littleducks · 15/12/2013 12:00

I sometimes say London, particularly if I don't think the person I'm speaking to will know where I mean if I say the local town names. I'm within the M25, tube zone 5, London Borough etc. but not a London postcode.......but no Kent/Surrey in address either just 'Middlesex'

AnnBryce · 15/12/2013 12:02

Is Northolt London now? It was Middlesex when I lived there (contradicts self!)

ScarletLady02 · 15/12/2013 12:02

AmberLeaf - agreed...DH is NOT a cockney Grin

Even though he sounds like one and uses rhyming slang all the time. Although SE slang is different to true cockney.

My Granddad was a proper cockney.

Eastwickwitch · 15/12/2013 12:03

When I lived in London anywhere outside Zone 3 was not London.
Now I live miles away, anywhere within the M25 is London. Odd thinking really.

AnnBryce · 15/12/2013 12:03

Some Surrey villages are turning into London Boroughs now, at least that's how it feels, I think it's sad. Even the accents are changing.

StealthPolarBear · 15/12/2013 12:03

Well yes I get that. But how can a London Borough overlap a county. In fact that's fairly important in my work - I do actually need to know. We present information for the LB of Croydon and for Surrey - are you telling me there's an overlap?

redpipe · 15/12/2013 12:03

I can see it now London expanding to Watford to the North and Romford to the East including Guildford and Maidstone.

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StealthPolarBear · 15/12/2013 12:04

Or maybe we don't include Croydon...will check

happytalk13 · 15/12/2013 12:04

I'm from North of the Watford Gap - if it's got a tube station, it's London Grin

ChippyMinton · 15/12/2013 12:04

Middlesex exists as a postal address. For places in Surrey county and some London boroughs.