So pissed off. Admittedly I can work myself into a fury over nothing so not sure if I'm over-reacting but I'm so angry at DP. Basically he has a habit of making plans with me and then changing his mind without letting me know. A few weeks ago we'd arranged to go out for a meal over lunch as he was due to finish work at 11.30am. So 12pm I'm sat there waiting. 12.30pm - still nothing. 1pm - not even a text so I text him to see where he was ... no reply. 2pm I get a text saying "was just having a game of football, on my way now" - thanks for letting me know the plans had changed and we were no longer going for a meal!
Last weekend we had arranged to do shopping together Friday afternoon as again, he was due to finish at 11.30 so I specially chose not to work that day (I'm on flexi hours). 12pm I text him to ask if we're still doing shopping - he said "yes, won't be long x" - 1pm I text him saying "I can do the shopping on my own if you want?" and he replied "no wait for me, I won't be long". 1.30pm he comes in - and says "I have loads to do around the house, why don't you go without me?" - ffs I'd been waiting hours for him, why couldn't he have just text me earlier and said that so I wasn't waiting around???
So today I've just really blown my top. Again I chose not to work as we had arranged to go and get christmas shopping and have lunch out. He was due to finish work at 12.30 so I hadn't eaten (as we were supposed to be eating out). 12.30 he text me more or less saying he was on his way and then we could get going. 12.50 he comes in and says "I need to get on with that fence but you never let me get on with anything!"
FFS why say he wants to do these things and keep me waiting around for him just to come home and decide that he'd changed his mind earlier in the day and just neglected to tell me?? So I was pissed off because again I'd been waiting around, I was hungry and I'd been looking forward to going just for him to come home and make out that I was dragging him out and he'd much rather not go. I told him I was angry because he keeps doing this, I asked why make arrangements if you don't want to do them?? why couldn't you let me know earlier that you didn't want to go?? etc
Anyway he burst out laughing, accused me of having a "proper duck fit" over it, starting taking the piss and continuously laughing at me as I got more and more angry and upset (more at the laughing now than anything else).