to think saying "she wants the D" is disgusting?

[oharaharlot]

Especially when said by a cocky arrogant man.

It's just so demeaning. Or am I just a prude?

D?

What?

Only if we can say he wants the V

Which we wouldn't because we're not idiots

I'm having to guess what it means, but if it means "she wants the dick" then I would find it more pathetic than anything else.

But YANBU to find it distasteful

I don't imagine the cocky, arrogant man in question gets to use his "d" much

are you playing scrabble?

What's a 'D' please ?

What does it mean? I've never heard of it

D????
V????
am I being thick?

Dick
Vagina

What you say back is:

Want to hear a joke about the V? Nah, you will never get it

Dick and vagina, I think. scaredoflabour

Eh? What?

Never heard this phrase.

I want a Dyson, does that count?

Sorry yes, D as in Dick.

A guy at work (who I thought was nice) apparently said (about me) - yeah she just wants the D.

Obviously referring to himself.

Doughnut?

Vino?

Is he looking for a Knee in the B's? Because he will surely get one.

I don't know why its pissed me off so much!

Maybe its the fact that hes been saying it behind my back to people, thus giving them a pretty shit opinion of myself.

I do not want your D because U R a D' head.

Btw he has the word "cock" in his surname.

Definitely living up to it.

The males who say this tend to not get the V

It's pissed you off because it's unprofessional, insulting, crude, misogynistic - I could go on...

Did he say that on work premises? Not sure what the guidelines are, but at the very least that surely constitutes behaviour that would bring te firm into disrepute? That's before even starting on the sexual harassment aspect.

cock by name, cock by nature.

god he obviously thinks very highly of himself I do like sp reply though op I am so sorry you need to work with this arse of a man I would reply with a sarky comment

Thinking about it more, in a work context this is surely pretty close to sexual harassment? I would be contacting HR I think.

If he said it to anyone whose opinion is worth worrying about it will be his reputation that will have suffered. How foul.

Xpost with Shotgun.

Did he say that on work premises?

Yes, in front of at least two of my work colleagues.