friday16 - the irony being, that believers often get offended at the aliens comparison, when there is actually more likelihood that aliens could exist, in some form (although doubtful they'd be like the grey men or blobs of sci-fi). Life, of sorts, has actually been found on other planets, after all.
I don't believe in aliens at all, I hasten to add!
And the alien thing brings up another important point - the experiences that people who say they have been abducted by, or who have made conact with, aliens, are all things that are nuerological, physical, emotional, mental, situational, or a combination of the above, that they have not been able to rationally explain, so have found an explanation in the cultural mythology of aliens and UFOs, etc. When really, scientists, doctors and psychologists can explain all their symptoms and experiences (the most common reason is actually just Night Terrors and other sleep disorders).
In the past, people used to attribute these things to angels, demons, fairies, pixies, spirits of the water, and so on. People use popular frameworks of belief to explain feelings and experiences that feel big or different or downright odd to them. What religious people call praying and having prayers answered is just talking to themselves and using their inner voice, like every human on Earth ever has done, does do, and will do. They are just calling it something religious. The big spiritual feelings they might get when watching a beautiful sunset are the plain old feelings of awe that anyone would get at something lovely to see, and bigger than themselves. But believers say this is God's presence, or God's work, and so on. They choose to see messages and signs or mysterious things where there are none, or which can be explained rationally. All of this is fine, and if it makes people feel better, then I am very happy for them. They just can't expect or demand that anyone else agrees that it had some supernatural or spiritual element, or that they don't look for other explanations.
I find it very odd that people would find facts and reason offensive.