DH said this joke on fb

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I'm an on-off regular but name changed.

My dh has hurt me in our relationship (another thread) last night had a huge argument..some things he has done came out and he realises that I'll never forget about these things (lying about huge debts, searching for women online amongst other things... oh calling me fat - I'm size 10/12 and a lot younger than him..I make an effort with appearance - he's the one who is over weight)

Anyway things have been tough at the moment (redundancy and mortgage to be paid - wishing for a miracle) and this morning we said we'd have a fresh start and start being kind to one another - no more nastiness and so on.

Anyway today he sent me this joke which he thinks is hysterical and then he has just put it on Facebook

this is the joke

'I've had enough of Christmas. All year long I work my f**g fingers to the bone to buy all the presents that my kids ask for. And what happens Christmas morning? That fat fu**r with a beard gets all the credit!! Still I suppose it's my fault for marrying her.'

Btw I love comedy but AIBU to feel so about his 'joke'

He's just told me to 'get over myself'

Thankyou for reading

Or alternatively get a grip and stop overstating a lame joke

boring, not funny.

you have sex with this man because...???

This shouldn't need moving to Relationships for most sensible people to look at this in context and agree that it isn't amusing. Thankfully only a handful of posters have failed to understand this and see the bigger picture.

what a dick!

Ho, ho fucking ho.

First day of being kind to you and he's posting wife jibes and telling you to get over it.

I wouldn't be able to hold the sharp end of my tongue I'm afraid, it would irk me that you are the thin one in the relationship who has probably paid for all the presents.