I'd appreciate some perspective and honesty with this, please.
So, I have 2 dds, aged almost 5yo and 19mo. Both are tall; dd1 is slender, dd2 not so much - just normal toddler chubbiness. Not overweight.
There is another mum of a girl who is in my dd1's class who is nice enough and does comment on how cute my dd2 is. Her children (age 5 and 3) are very small - at the other end of the spectrum to my dcs.
Lately however, since returning to school in September, she makes a lot of comments re my daughter's sizes and about dd2 in particular. I usually bite my tongue and let it pass but I have to admit, its getting right on my tits.
I carried dd2 on my hip to the school gates today and the latest gem was 'God, I bet she weighs a ton!' I answered 'No, not at all. She's just a normal weight'.
I think the other mum comments because she has an issue with her children's small statures. There was a time over the summer when she commented on my dd2's foot size (she was only a 5 at the time!). Her 3yo was a 5 and I said 'you mean he's still in toddler shoes?!' It stopped the conversation.
WIBU to, next time she comments on either of my dd's heights/weights, say 'Every time I see you lately, you're making comments about her weight. Why do you keep going on?'
I don't really want to make issue, but like I say, I'm feeling irritated.