A couple of weeks ago I lent my DB my car and left my bankcard in it. His DP (who I don't get on with in the slightest) gave me twenty quid to tide me over. AIBU to be furious that they text and asked me for it this evening?
I NEVER borrow money from them and it was simply because he fecked off with my card. Usually I would say IABU, they lent me money and it should be paid back straight away but I really think it was just my Sil being spiteful. Me and my DB are the only family we each have and are amazingly close (to the point where he told his DP if she didn't make an effort with me he would break up with her - I can't stand her but I be civil for his sake)
BUT. Since then I have kept their children for an entire weekend. Fed and entertained them. Bought my DN a riding helmet as she hadn't got one (which was £30 but I thought it was really unsafe, Sil wasn't bothered) and drove 30 miles and back twice, to the nearest hospital when my DB broke his ribs to lift and leave him to casualty as his DP couldn't be feckin bothered.
AIBU to be completely insulted that I was asked for this money back, especially considering that my brother earns about eight grand a year more than me and they know I struggle to pay the bills?