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school shoes aibu (prepared to be told I am)

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frangipan · 19/11/2013 16:52

My son started secondary school this year, in line with the uniform policy which states ' black, preferably leather, shoes with non slip soles' I bought him these
www.amazon.co.uk/Pod-Felix-Older-Casual-School/dp/B00E4NIFBU/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1384879250&sr=8-3&keywords=pod+boys+shoes so far so good, uniform was checked and passed off in the first week.

They fell apart after the first half term, walking, bus ride, heavy rain etc. The soles peeled away and the facing came away. We did glue them together so they would make it to half term.

so in half term we bought some more expensive better quality shoes

www.amazon.co.uk/Vans-Black-Leather-Trainers-UK/dp/B006EIU2YG/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1384879462&sr=8-2&keywords=black+leather+vans

we used permanent marker and blacked out the logo flash. They are black leather shoes with non slip soles. They have told us the new pair are not acceptable and that we have a week to buy new ones and that the original one were not suitable. We argued that our DS (if I do say so myself) is always clean and smart looking and that the shoes are in accordance with uniform policy. The school still say they are not appropriate. I honestly didn't buy them for the brand and bought them on the premise that they were similar to the original pair that no one had commented on for eight weeks.DS has canvas versions for casual wear and I knew they would fit and be comfortable. Can they really force us to buy more shoes by punishing DS??? new to all this so all help much appreciated.

The school sent him into isolation this morning for uniform breach. No one contacted me.

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SaucyJack · 20/11/2013 17:42

my year 9 wears black converse to school. Thankfully the school choose their battles quite carefully and shoes are lower down their list of pointless shit to get anal over....

That's great for your son. Not quite so great for the kids from the poorer families who get their heads kicked in on the way home from school because their parents can't afford the latest brands.

Personally, I wholly support any school (especially secondary) which has a policy for only permitting sensible, non lifestyle branded shoes and bags etc.

usualsuspect · 20/11/2013 17:59

If you think kids can't tell who the 'poor' kids,are even in uniform.You are a bit naive.

usuallyright · 20/11/2013 18:05

get their heads kicked in? Really?
I was that poor kid in poor kid clothes and nobody kicked my head in because of the shoes I wore!

Shinyshinyface · 20/11/2013 18:07

My daughter's school has just made the black leather Vans permissible school footwear. I had to gulp pretty hard when I saw the price but I had to agree that it was a sensible choice. Vans are really comfy and half the kids were probably already wearing them already.Funny what one school considers uniform is outrageous and illegal in another.

EllenJanesthickerknickers · 20/11/2013 18:20

Crazy, they look like perfectly decent shoes for school. You'd have no trouble with them at my school.

overfacebook · 20/11/2013 21:13

YABU-they're trainers.

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