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Actually, I am being really unreasonable. However I would like to ask those who have experienced Angel Feathers to....

805 replies

DioneTheDiabolist · 12/11/2013 22:43

...answer a few questions that I have.

1). What does it feel like when you see that feather?

2). What are your thoughts when this happens?

And

3). What would you say are the long term (if any) effects that you would attribute to these encounters.

I understand that this belief has been the subject of some ridicule here. I have no intention of ridiculing anyone. This thread has been inspired by a previous AIBU thread, but is not a thread about a thread. I am not a journalist. I am not seeking results to use in an academic submission or publication. What I am seeking is knowledge and understanding in the hope that I can use it to help others.

IABU for the following reasons:
I only posted in AIBU for the traffic. If MN rule that I have breached guidelines, can it be moved and not deleted.

And I ask the skeptics not to put people off answering honestly. If you think it necessary, I can start another thread for all your thoughts to be discussed. Perhaps the scientifically minded of you could look at this as an information gathering excersise.Smile

OP posts:
sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:36

It is a folk belief which assigns an added meaning to common occurrences.
The meaning tends to remain the same, such as walking under ladders in unlucky. Often it derives from obsolete danger or belief. Ladders are associated with the noose.

It is different to Faith and relationship with God, because this is dynamic, live. The Bible is described as the living word because it is revealed to us through the Holy Spirit. Christians should not be looking for signs or putting their faith in rituals, although they may perform rituals and see signs IYSWIM.

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:40

Hettie indulge me. Point out my great gaffs, the ones which compromise my scientific understanding.

headinhands · 16/11/2013 09:42

How do you know that a superstitious person is wrong in their belief that walking under a ladder is baseless yet your belief is valid? How have you decided that their folk belief is wrong? What do you mean by folk?

headinhands · 16/11/2013 09:43

How do you know cracking a mirror won't bring 7 years bad luck?

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:47

Superstition is dead in the harm it can do, it is not responsive. Walking under a ladder may be the safest option. No one should have their day ruined due to the number of crows they have seen. The Victorians had no reason to mistrust a person because their eyes were only a certain distance apart....

HettiePetal · 16/11/2013 09:48

Advancing a God of the gaps argument....... "Unified theory anyone?"

QM is "woo".

That kind of crap.

Not convinced your grasp of epigenetics is all that sound either. Neither is mine. particularly, but it's extremely easy to see why it's really not remotely analogous with anything in the Bible.

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:48

head there is no bad luck for me because 'I am the head and not the tail.'

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:50

Hettie you've not convinced me. I think you are lost in translation for me.

HettiePetal · 16/11/2013 09:50

Oh - and all that nonsense about alchemy, of course.

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:51

Folk is just a term for people.

HettiePetal · 16/11/2013 09:51

Well, maybe I'm mistaken.

"QM is woo" does indeed sound like someone who knows what they're talking about.

Hmm
sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:54

You'd have to know more about Alchemy to see the connections Hettie. A lot was linked to belief if they could turn base metal into Gold they themselves could transform into Gods, become Divine. The ultimate Humanists...

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 09:55

The woo was slightly tongue in cheek, however it does hold a certain amount of mystery.

headinhands · 16/11/2013 11:42

Sub I still don't understand how you are able to reject the superstition as essentially false (although comforting) yet accept the claims of Christianity.

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 11:59

head because superstition and Christianity are not the same thing, as I explained in my 9.47 post.

I do not find superstition at all comforting, quite the opposite.

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 12:00

^and 9.36 post.

curlew · 16/11/2013 12:07

I don't actually think the angel feathers thing is anything to do with folk law. I challenge anyone to find a reference to it more than...ooh....20 years old.

headinhands · 16/11/2013 12:08

No I meant how you know Christianity is true beyond what you think it is i.e. Relationship with god

headinhands · 16/11/2013 12:09

Such as how do you know your relationship with god isn't just in your head as it were

HettiePetal · 16/11/2013 12:10

Christianity is many things, one of which is superstitious. (Illogical and historically wrong are two more things)

Praying to a god is as superstitious as not walking under a ladder. Or saluting Mr Magpie. Or touching wood.

And it has the same effect. Nada.

Letitsnow9 · 16/11/2013 12:15

A friend occasionally found them in difficult times including in an ambulance and in hospital while she was waiting for her first dose of chemo. She believed they were from her aunt and they brought her great comfort.

ADishBestEatenCold · 16/11/2013 12:15

Just spotted this thread. Thought it referred to some new type of ultralight condom.

Guess that's a bit inappropriate? Sorry. Blush

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 12:18

curlew There is such a thing as modern folklore or urban myths, if you like.

Hettie you are confusing Christianity with false religion.

head how do I know? That is where Faith comes in.

headinhands · 16/11/2013 12:21

But the superstitious person has faith that it works too. So not sure how you logically reject their system per your own? The way you explained superstition is essentially the same for religion: pattern seeking, looking reasons etc

sublimelime · 16/11/2013 12:23

I am not saying Angel feathers are merely folklore or superstition, just they can be. Where people find comfort from them I am happy to believe they are the work of God. Where people become superstitiously obsessed with them and seeking them out I would not connect this with God, that is something rather darker...