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AIBU? DS was ill and the school have marked it as an unauthorised holiday and are threatening to fine me!

893 replies

WeAreEternal · 08/11/2013 14:23

A couple of weeks ago DS (7) had an upset stomach, he D&V over night and most of the next day.
First thing in the morning (a Thursday) I called the school and let them know he was ill.
He was feeling better by the evening but as he had D&V school policy is 24 hours off, so I kept him off Friday too.

I received a letter from to school yesterday saying that those days have been marked as an unauthoried holiday as "although we received a phone call from you stating that (DS) was ill, we are led to believe that DS was in fact on a holiday to XXXX on these two dates"

The letter goes on to say that if he was genuinely ill they expect me to provide evidence such as a doctors appointment card, a prescription, a medication receipt or something simmilar that can "verify my version of events".

I am a medical professional, I know when when my DS needs medication or to see a GP or when he just has a bit of a stomach bug and needs rest and fluids.
Who would take a child to the GP or buy medication for D&V anyway?

How on earth can I prove that DS was ill?
And why are they even querying this?
AIBU to think this is bloody ridiculous?

Anyone have any ideas?

OP posts:
harticus · 27/11/2013 16:59

Have to agree that I would have phoned them back and made an appt to see the Head.
Strike while the iron is hot and all that!

clam · 27/11/2013 17:54

I suspect they're hoping you're going to go away quietly, and not pursue it.

Hahaha! Little do they know the power of MN.

antiqueacorns · 27/11/2013 18:51

Have you obtained a copy of their complaint policy yet? It should specify timescales for a response which I expect they have not adhered to.

Peekingduck · 27/11/2013 23:19

I've asked that a few times antiqueacorns.

MyBaby1day · 28/11/2013 12:03

YADNBU, he was ill!, it wasn't a holiday!. I'de be bloomin complaining at them threatening you. Hope your DS is well now. Appalling Sad

hooochycoo · 29/11/2013 13:34

'kin hell. still nothing. can't believe you haven't sorted it OP

PeggyBabcockBoot · 29/11/2013 20:38

wow - still nothing?

SlicedLemon · 30/11/2013 09:35

Has anything happened with this WeAreEternal?

Slatecross · 30/11/2013 09:45

Still nothing OP?

AchyFox · 02/12/2013 02:44

Any reply in writing from them ?

PestoFestivissimos · 02/12/2013 08:21

Any news Eternal?

hooochycoo · 03/12/2013 23:00

aibu to be dissapointed verging on annoyed that the OP has vanished?

MrsBonkers · 04/12/2013 02:23

Curious!

HungryHorace · 04/12/2013 05:33

Hoooochy, I'm with you...it shouldn't be allowed!

AllabouttheE · 04/12/2013 06:38

Had avoided marking a place until now. But seriously? I await with all other MNetters

madoldbird · 04/12/2013 06:43

Dear Santa

Please can I have a proper update and outcome for this thread for Christmas. I have been a very good girl this year.

Lots of love

MOB

BitOutOfPractice · 04/12/2013 08:13

I was so excited when I saw this was bumped.

ReallyOverThis · 04/12/2013 14:33

OP if you feel you can't update due to confidentiality concerns or something, it would be really nice if you'd just come back on and say so, given that quite a few here helped you with strategy, and one even drafted a letter for you I think?

MatryoshkaDoll · 04/12/2013 15:30

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

JulesJules · 04/12/2013 16:16

Anything yet??

Unexpected · 04/12/2013 17:07

Hmm… obviously there is no obligation on people to come back and update but when people spend time offering good advice it would be nice just to come back and say what is happening - even if nothing is happening! The OP has been posting on other threads so hasn't disappeared.

GolfingWoes · 04/12/2013 17:47

Interested to know what happened ...

antiqueacorns · 04/12/2013 18:35

I have seen the Op posting on another thread in the last coupe of days so she's definitely still about.

PeggyBabcockBoot · 04/12/2013 19:26

News Op?

SlicedLemon · 04/12/2013 20:48

Oh - I was hoping for news too. Think I need to get a life because I also got excited to see this thread at the top of my Threads I am on list.

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