DD (9) had a sleepover at a friends house last night. The friend is a near neighbour and in her class at school but was the first sleepover at her house. DD came home this morning really spooked, said she didn't even want to go upstairs on own because she had watched "Sixth Sense", scary 15 film about seeing the dead, at the sleepover. Really annoyed that friend's parents thought this was appropriate for 9 year olds. Thinking of sending the following text "X says does"t want to sleep on own tonight as too scared after watching 15 film Sixth Sense last night! Don't know if you were aware what they were watching?".
What do you think? Gives friend's mum the get out that she could say "sorry, wasn't aware, should have kept closer eye". Which might be true of course. Don't want to have fallout, small village and all that but don't feel I can just let it go if DD is going to spend time there in future.