IANBU - friend was rude

[Mintyy]

Went out for dinner the other night.

Three of my friends were already there when I got to the restaurant.

One was talking (about something major, I soon found out) and the other two were listening.

However the listening two looked up and smiled when I got to the table but the talker just carried on talking, it was a bit awkward tbh!

One of the listeners briefly explained what the talker was talking about, to put me in the picture. The other listener said "let's just say hello to Mintyy and then you can carry on".

Talker was rude, yes? She is someone who can't generally be stopped once she starts but it's basic manners to pause and say hi to someone else joining your group?

She was a bit rude but you are taking this too far. You sound equally socially inept tbh,

Erm, yeah I guess it was a bit rude not to acknowledge you but I don't think it's something to dwell on.

Well, from your later posts, it sounds like there was a larger group of you, all gathering there, so, no, I wouldn't expect every conversation to stop each time a new person arrived.

Sounds to me like she doesn't like you very much, nor you her

She sounds like a bitch! Send her a letter explaining why you will never speak to her again then have a bonfire in your garden of anything you've ever worn in her presence. Seasonal.

It is the only way she will learn. Maybe you could turn these terrible events into a misery lit novel to work through your understandable anguish at a later date.