Ex has paid no maintenance in a year. He recently offered to pay £100 every time he is paid after a job as he is self employed. He owes me £200 and today was supposed to give the first £100. He handed over £52 plus a receipt for £48 of clothing after he claimed that Ds clothes were too small and dirty.
I am furious as the money is to be spent how I choose and is another example of his controlling behaviour. DS did not need new clothes btw.
what do you think? AIBU to be furious?
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To be angry that ex spent half my maintenance
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WearingAnUmbrellaHat · 30/10/2013 20:18
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YoureBeingAnAnyFuckerFan ·
30/10/2013 22:22
She is one of those people who seems to always be in a battle with someone. Her mum her SIL her ex, her dps ex. I think it's her default position to be 'at war' with people even though she complains that her own ex doesnt give her enough CM 
WearingAnUmbrellaHat ·
31/10/2013 06:48
I have got a feeling that somehow he is going to be using giving me money to his own advantage. He had insisted that I sign a receipt but when my mum asked for the receipt for me to sign (I was in the next room as we don't speak face to face) he said "I haven't got it, I'll sign it off as something else"
At this point I was so mad I just wanted him to go so it didn't really register but is there a way he could make paying me somehow to his advantage when doing his tax return? I am also suspicious now that he will write a receipt that says more than he gave me and sign it "on my behalf".
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WearingAnUmbrellaHat ·
31/10/2013 06:50
Had a thought this morning that I would post the clothes back to him, no postage of course splattered in nail varnish 
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