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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to be saddened by the lack of children's films that promote female independence?

105 replies

Objection · 25/10/2013 12:52

Trying to find movies for the kids I occasionally look after.
I'm really struggling to find PG movies that don't feature a female being stereotyped as either weak, overtly girly (not that there is anything wrong with girlyness) or highly dependent on men (being rescued etc).

In fact, I basically have Mulan and possibly Tangled as an option.

AIBU? Or are there a whole slew of children's films with strong female protaganists that I don't know about?

OP posts:
KirjavaTheCorpse · 25/10/2013 16:50

Oh yy to the The Last Airbender. Full of strong female rolemodels. They come across a village of Kyoshi warriors who are all specifically female and make a point of rejecting gender stereotype.

Legend of Korra is brilliant but a bit more grown-up than Airbender, but she basically runs shit. Oh and she's muscly! You never see that.

MrsOakenshield · 25/10/2013 16:56

am I the only person who thinks a lot of these films are a bit old for 2 and 3-year-olds? (Actually, I know I'm always the only one thinking that HP and LOTR aren't for 6-year-olds so probably it is just me!)

NomDeOrdinateur · 25/10/2013 18:07

MrsOakenshield - I don't think any of the suggestions other than potentially-frightening HP are inappropriate for that age.

My favourite film from 1.5-4 years old was The Neverending Story. I watched it every single day, and the video tape wore out and had to be replaced at least once Grin.

NomDeOrdinateur · 25/10/2013 18:08

*Makes mental note to suggest we watch it at Christmas this year, whille DH covertly films my parents' reaction...>

NomDeOrdinateur · 25/10/2013 18:09

/\ Self-narration fail... Blush

Slippydippysoap · 25/10/2013 18:13

Monster v's Aliens is fab
Monster in Paris also fab

My 2 year old knows all the words!

weneedtotalkaboutkettles · 25/10/2013 18:17

I think the BFG is far too scary for toddlers - sorry.

Strumpetron · 25/10/2013 18:18

There's absolutely loads.

NynaevesSister · 25/10/2013 18:21

Not for your age OP but for girls who are a little older, Whale Rider.

I would have avoided hour long movies at that age. Opted more for short shows like Night Garden or the Wot Wots.

whiteandyellowiris · 25/10/2013 18:52

oh thanks i needed some film ideas

rumbleinthrjungle · 25/10/2013 19:08

Swallows and Amazons. Nancy Blackett is the Captain of the Amazons all girls crew and while Susan is a bit Anne/Famous Fiveish, Titty is the main plot leader and does the solving and saving. Although let's not even start on the ins and outs of naming a child Titty....

lucysnowe · 25/10/2013 19:15

The Tinkerbells movies are actually pretty good in this regard. Tinkerbell is strong and independent, makes mistakes, forges good female friendships etc, and as far as I know there is a male character who could be a love interest, but he doesn't pop up much. :)

ChrisTheSheep · 25/10/2013 19:15

Another vote for Miyazaki: empowered young women are a staple of his films; they're also beautifully animated, interesting and full of airships, magic and mythology!

ChrisTheSheep · 25/10/2013 19:17

Some Ghibli films will be too grown-up for very small children, but my son (2 and 3/4) loves Ponyo and My Neighbour Totoro.

ColderThanAWitchsTitty · 25/10/2013 19:20

Dd 2 years, enjoys the spiderwom series from the 70s. Check netflix

Catacombmint · 25/10/2013 19:21

I have a slight wobble over the way the mother is treated in Mary Poppins. She pursues votes for women at the cost of noticing her family. Gggrrrrr!

Fakebook · 25/10/2013 19:21

Cinderella part 2 (don't know what it's called). Cinderella puts her foot down about dressing up and doing things in a particular way just because she's a princess. Dd loves it.

Tinkerbell and the Great Fairy Rescue: dd loves this too. Tinkerbell is a bold and brave fairy. The little girl in it proves her dad wrong and is clever.

Obviously Tangled and Brave.

Rio: the female bird is not a scaredy cat like the male one and is clever.

Those are off the top of my head.

mrspremise · 25/10/2013 20:24

Matilda.

VisualiseAHorse · 25/10/2013 20:26

Really agree with Studio Ghibli.

SorrelForbes · 25/10/2013 20:34

The Little Princess and The Secret Garden?

dementedma · 25/10/2013 20:42

Mulan
Hotel Transylvania
Brave
Matilda

ColderThanAWitchsTitty · 25/10/2013 20:58

I love the secret garden..

fakebook the dad ignores them for his job too. I suspect if both parents hadn't looked a bit neglectful Mary Poppins wouldn't have been offered the job.

It annoys me that she is a suffragette who hides it..But I supsect that probably did happen a lot!

GobbolinoCat · 25/10/2013 22:18

YABU there are lots of fantastic films mentioned here with brilliant female characters.

Balance is all.

XanetiaOfTheDelphae · 25/10/2013 22:24

Unsure if age suitable or not but how about The Incredibles? Also another vote for Brave.

TravellingLemon · 25/10/2013 22:35

Another vote here for tinkerbell. Lots of good messages about what to do when you make a mistake, female friendships and saving the day. The male characters are also pretty positive.

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