Ahem. Let me show you my master list (I take this vvvvvvvvv seriously)
- Another upvote for the Ghibli films, Kiki's Delivery Service has been a big hit with every child I've showed it to.
*The Last Unicorn: Female protagonist, action-packed, beautifully animated. I was obsessed with that film when I was five, still am to a degree.
*Rainbow Brite and the Star Stealer: Rainbow is proactive, snarky and holds her own against a selfish princess and a grumpy male sidekick
*Enchanted: Debunks the princess mythos and does it hilariously. Giselle is adorable without being too saccharine.
Sailor Moon: Anime, but don't let that put you off. It's one of the most well known outside of Japan, is easy to find the dub, main female character is flawed but strong, backed up by four equally strong female sidekicks and a dude who throws roses at people, beautifully animated, is silly for the first two seasons then s*t gets real.
*Princess Tutu: Anime again, but so awesome. The main female character saves the prince through the power of DANCE! And it's again beautifully animated.
*The Cat Returns: A Ghibli film but not a Miyazaki, girl gets turned into a cat, hijinks ensue. My four-year-old mindee loves it to pieces.
*My Little Pony/ Friendship is Magic: The girl's show that was so awesome that men could watch and enjoy it. It's really good, there's a pony for everyone to like whether your alignment is girly girl, tomboy or goofy nuetral. Plus the film Equestria Girls is coming to the cinema soon.
*Cinderella 3/A Twist in Time: I know, I know, but Cinders was always my favourite princess and in this film she gets to do more than just go to the ball. An ugly stepsister gets redeemed, the prince gets more lines, and Cinderella nearly goes over a cliff in a ruined wedding dress. What's not to like?
*Ever After: A retelling of Cinderella with Drew Barrymore, it's just delightful. Cinders is proactive, fiesty and takes no crap from the prince, who is kind of a dbag but gets better. Anjelica Huston is the stepmother, and she is glorious.
*Avatar/The Last Airbender: Has a great plot, excellent world-building and fantastic characters. Bonus points for Toph Bei-Fong, a blind ten-year-old martial arts master who never wears shoes and is delighted when she finds out her character in a play is being played by a burly man. The sequel Korra has even more to recommend it.
I have more, and I will be back.