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To just want people to stop nagging us about not having a landline!?

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Cookethenook · 18/10/2013 13:09

This is probably the most boring subject ever, but i'm getting so annoyed with the more senior members of our family insisting that we have a landline and that emails and voicemails get answered the second we get them.

We both have mobile phones, which we are contactable on most of the time. We have a landline for the internet, but no landline phone as we had issues with not being able to make outgoing calls and the last time we tried to sort it out, it cost us £8 SODDING POUNDS in phone bills. Also both of us have more than enough minutes and texts on our phones to be able to call. I do understand it's more expensive to call a mobile from a BT landline, so i've said it's fine to call/ text and say 'can you call me back?' in order to save our family the bill.

But every time i speak to my parents, or aunts and uncles, i'm constantly nagged about how difficult it is for them to get in contact with us, how expensive it is and how we don't call them back straight away. We often get icy phone calls saying 'i left a message yesterday, why haven't you called us back?' It is driving me UP THE WALL! We are guilty of not calling back straight away, as we have children (1 small baby, so i don't pick up the phone during his nap time) and are busy a lot of the time as we pack a lot into our weekends, but we do call back straight away if it's urgent and at least get back to them during the next day or two. I've even been 'told off' about not commenting on one of their facebook comments on my posts! It's bloody ridiculous!

It is really starting to cause me stress, but i don't want to sound rude or like i don't want to speak to them (because i do!). Should i just give in and get the landline fixed or stand my ground? ARGH!

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peggyundercrackers · 18/10/2013 19:57

fluffy I would answer it but only to say ive got guests in and will call them back but that's what I do at work, if I am with someone I will excuse myself, answer the phone to say I am with someone and can i take your number and I will call back.

Donkeyok · 18/10/2013 20:53

YANBU we haven't had a land line number for 6 1/2 years. It works out cheaper due to free minutes; we usually have them in our pocket and you can link more facilities. My mum doesn't get it, and also when filling in contact detail for schools etc. They view us as though we are hiding something Hmm

MsPickle · 19/10/2013 00:12

:)

It's all stored in the family memory fault though isn't it? That's what I wish I could have understood

Bunbaker · 19/10/2013 00:40

What a brilliant post Friday. We still have a landline because OH works from home and having a landline makes the business look more professional and permanent. We run broadband through our landline. Our families' default method of communication is still the landline because it costs too much for them to ring our mobiles. Lastly when the landline rings we can hear it anywhere in the house. If my mobile is in the kitchen and I am upstairs I won't hear it

Darkesteyes · 19/10/2013 01:11

Got a letter from BT today Line rental is going up by 3.5 %

Bunbaker · 19/10/2013 11:05

"and also when filling in contact detail for schools etc. They view us as though we are hiding something"

A lot of organisations still think that way, especially financial companies. Having a landline gives the impression of stability. I expect that eventually everyone will just have mobiles, but while there are a significant number of people like my 84 year old MIL who don't own mobile phones, having a landline is the only option for them to stay in contact. And for her to ring a mobile for a half hour chat is just too costly.

Fluffycloudland77 · 19/10/2013 11:12

Talk mobile do 500min calling plans with data and texts for £7 for whoever asked about cheap mobilie plans. You get a smartphone for free too.

Anyway, the worlds changing and you have to keep up so yanbu. We don't have a ll phone plugged in either. I only phone free phone or numbers I get off saynoto0870.com.

friday16 · 19/10/2013 12:06

There was a cartoon in The New Yorker last year, in which someone was saying to their friend "I like looking at amateur porn, because I like seeing other people's apartments". I think that "how we use telephones" falls into a similar category: we all assume that other people are like us, but in fact we have no way to know what happens in their private houses. So person X gives an account of their telecoms usage model, and person Y is stunned that they are able to function without an a, are still using a b, are paying c for d when they could be paying e for f, and so on.

Some people always have a mobile on them, so it ringing when they're at home is fine. Others leave it in their handbag, or coat pocket, or briefcase, and therefore it's not as easy as picking up a landline that's on some handy piece of furniture. Some people have families where individuals talk to individuals, others where households talk to households. Some people use texts to family, others don't. It's very hand to generalise, and when one family's model rubs up against another, and each believes theirs is the One True Way, trouble is bound to follow.

DavesDadsDogDiedDiabolically · 20/10/2013 13:57

lljkk - £8 bill plus £14 per month landline charge = £22 per month. (I doubt the £8 was a yearly bill)

Opposed to £9.79 per month for my mobile - which I would be paying anyway as I'd still have a mobile what with it being quite useful.

No requirement for a landline in the DDDDDD household, if you don't want to call me, text me & I'll call you back - simples!!

expatinscotland · 20/10/2013 14:25

And some areas can only get BT. Hence, why we have no landline anymore. It. Costs too much.

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