Something happened when I was 18. I fell pregnant. I was in a relationship at the time, even lived with thR bastard, but boy they were shit times but I thought I was 'in love'.
Anyway, I told boyfriend who said I had to get rid of the baby or I'd be out on the street. Property was in his name. I told my family. They said i'd have nowhere to live neither and i'd be on my own. I believed them completely, and I was forced and bullied into a termination and on a winters day I was marched to the hospital by my mother and bastard boyfriend (let's just call him cunt from now on, terrible word, but fitting).
As soon as I'd got the hospital gown on, Cunt said he had to go because the football was on and he couldn't miss it. I had the termination and my heart almost killed me with the pain that the baby inside of me was being murdered by my consent by me being there.
I was discharged and went home, was lied on the couch feeling really upset but trying not to show my feelings, and my grandmother told me to stop being so pathetic, and that I'd only had an abortion.
I now am 30 almost, still childless and suffer from fibroids. If I ever cannot concieve, I will never forgive those bastards.
Sorry it's so long, just never told a soul and it still hurts.
Anyone else want to pour their hearts out? It's quite cathartic I must say!
AIBU?
To wonder what's the shittiest thing someones ever said/done to you?
annabanana84 · 20/09/2013 15:19
dementedmumsofsix
I am sat here in shock. Two months he has been with her and he told you that 
The sod will come crawling back..they always do.
When my eldest childrens father walked out (because he couldn't cope with the pressure of three children under two) I used to tell him that the grass only looked greener because he had his rose-tinted specs on and if he took them off, the grass would be a piss-pale green colour.
I was right.
OP, what an arse. It must have been awful for you to be in that situation. My heart goes out to you. Here, have a [no comment]
xx
On presenting my new daughter to the ex-inlaws.
musicismylife: Isn't she beautiful?
ex-inlaws: Depends what you call beautiful (
)
musicismylife: Well, I think she is lovely and look at her little face.
ex-inlaws: Well, I suppose half a nigger is better that a whole one.
My daughter is mixed race and my ex-partner just sat there shuffling in his seat. He didn't say a word. I told them to leave :(
My poor DM and DF had to break the news to me (they found out through a complete chance) that my DP was leading a double life and was in a relationship of two years (and had a mortgage) with an OW. The OW was completely in the dark too.
To stop me outing him to his OW, ex DP went to the police and told them I was a psychotic ex who was threatening him and OW with violence . The police came to see me and thankfully didn't believe a word he said.
I was ill with the stress of it all and so were my parents :(
I wish I knew LeGavrOrf.
Her words have affected so many of my life choices and destroyed what little self belief I had.
Recently DP gave me a beautiful piece of jewellery for a big birthday and to signify his love for me. My mum's comment. "Oooh it's lovely, you don't deserve it" 
Years ago I sent my then boyfriend who lived miles away regular letters,and one was full of nasty comments about the sister of the ward where I was a student nurse. (I really didn't like her!) When I finished our relationship, he sent the letter to the hospital,addressing it to her.She asked to speak to me in private,and when I saw that letter in her hand,it was like a nightmare...the worst bit was that she was so kind and sweet about it....
God, I just want to gather you all up in my arms and promise you that no-one will ever hurt you again
Pag, that is so horrible
And Night-Scented - how awful
And GetOrf
How can parents/relatives be so nasty to their own?
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