Something happened when I was 18. I fell pregnant. I was in a relationship at the time, even lived with thR bastard, but boy they were shit times but I thought I was 'in love'.
Anyway, I told boyfriend who said I had to get rid of the baby or I'd be out on the street. Property was in his name. I told my family. They said i'd have nowhere to live neither and i'd be on my own. I believed them completely, and I was forced and bullied into a termination and on a winters day I was marched to the hospital by my mother and bastard boyfriend (let's just call him cunt from now on, terrible word, but fitting).
As soon as I'd got the hospital gown on, Cunt said he had to go because the football was on and he couldn't miss it. I had the termination and my heart almost killed me with the pain that the baby inside of me was being murdered by my consent by me being there.
I was discharged and went home, was lied on the couch feeling really upset but trying not to show my feelings, and my grandmother told me to stop being so pathetic, and that I'd only had an abortion.
I now am 30 almost, still childless and suffer from fibroids. If I ever cannot concieve, I will never forgive those bastards.
Sorry it's so long, just never told a soul and it still hurts.
Anyone else want to pour their hearts out? It's quite cathartic I must say!
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To wonder what's the shittiest thing someones ever said/done to you?
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The sonographer at my 34 week scan on our twins just blurting out "one of your babies has died". Just like that. When DH shouted "what?" she tried saying it again with a better choice of words but by then I was in shock. She then made it worse by saying "but did you not feel reduction in movements?". No you stupid cow, there's two babies in there and for weeks I couldn't tell which one was doing what or I'd have bastard well come straight in. Not that it would have made any difference to the outcome as it happens, but I will never forget how she made me feel, even though the following week is still a blur to me.
for all of us, we didn't deserve this shit.
The "man" I was dating for a while came to visit, had sex with me and immediately afterwards got up, dressed and started to walk out. The conversation went something like this:
Me: what are you doing?
Twat: I'm leaving. I don't want to see you any more
Me: why didn't you dump me before you fucked me?!
Twat: I find women are calmer after sex
And with that he was gone 
It was just as well I was suitably "calm" after sex and he made a swift getaway or else I'd have ripped his balls off 
It took me a long time to get over that little gem.
TheJoyful I've been told that to. Apparently I wasn't trying hard enough to beat my depression 
to everyone on here.
ed at all of these ! My father was a drunken, violent man and destroyed my childhood. The effect on my mental health and self esteem is still with me today.
I developed anorexia at 13 years of age and, at my lowest point, sought therapy.
My mum came with me and just before I went in to see the therapist, my mum said "don't mention your dad". I only went to one appointment.
When I was 17 (still in the grips of anorexia), my mum told me she thought it was better if I moved out as I caused my dad's bad moods. I left.
Thanks mum.
for everybody who has had shit thrown at them.
What a sad thread
Receiving a phone call from my mum telling me my dad had just died of a massive heart attack, he was 52. I just remember dropping the phone and falling to the floor.
8 months later I received a phone call from my sister telling me my mum had taken her own life. I knew she would never get over losing my dad. :(
These stories are so so sad. I'm really sorry to everyone who has been affected by other people's shitty attitudes and actions.
Mine is similar to yours GeeTeeEff my dad died of a heart attack at the age of 66. But for you to then lose your mum too, I can't imagine I'm sorry.
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