I can't even read this thread. I have tried several times, but the posts from still-serving teachers are giving me panic attacks.
I didn't have a negative OFSTED judgement in my time even when I was a lone parent to a three-month old baby and HAD to go back to work and face the chaos my maternity replacement had left two days before they came in. It nearly broke me.
I tried to go back when DD was three. Just for a term and in my class of twenty, one YR 3 child was raped by her GM's BF, another child came to school stinking of faeces in the same trackie clothes every day. He stopped attending when his mother fell foul of the dealers on the estate and the entire family didn't dare leave their house, was taken into care, given a proper uniform then disappeared.
Another child battered into unconsciousness by a pupil two years older who heard voices in his head and had NO intervention from mental health services because mental health services don't kick in until ten years old.
Chairs brandished at me. Pupil jumping from table to table so that the whole class had to be evacuated. Parents chemically dependant.
Seven year old girls telling boys to lick their pussies and a delightful child who would be taken to London every weekend so that his Dad could batter drugs with his GF and would not be fed.
I have two disabled children and a mother with severe dementia. My Dad rings me ten times a day to sort out his admin and I am trying to run a business from home and yet this is all much easier than teaching. I still have nightmares about it and this is from someone who was mostly rated by OFSTED as having outstanding or excellent lessons / assemblies.
God help the next generation and
to those who are still doing it.