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I want to smash my neighbour's buggy

95 replies

DodieDoo · 09/09/2013 09:04

There are two flats in our building, us on the lower floor up a short flight of stairs and our neighbours above us up the continuing stair case.
They have a 3 year old, we have a four month old. We own and have lived here 6 years, they rent and have lived there 2.5 years.
They obviously knew when they moved in that they had a child and that their flat was upstairs, yet they didn't take into consideration that they don't want to carry a buggy up and down stairs so they decided to keep it in the very small area at the bottom of the stairs which obstructs the front door and stairs. (Lease says nothing can be stored in communal areas).
At first my partner and I were considerate and let them whilst their child was small but whilst I was pregnant I found it very hard to squeeze past and we felt that as their kid was at walking age that we should ask them to move it out the hall. They didn't. We asked again. They didn't. Its a fold up that they dont fold up, so we did and put it as much out of the way as possible. They kicked off for touching their stuff. We told the management company who asked them to move it. They did for a week. Then my son was born so it was harder to get past we asked them to move it. They didn't. We went to the management company again. They still didn't.
We keep our buggy in our flat but need to 'set it up' in hall which I only just had space to do. Until yesterday when I found they had just got a new 'off roader' with massive wheels and takes up even more space so I'm pretty much now penned in or have to face an argument when I want to go out.

Am I being unreasonable wanting to take a hammer to the b**rd thing and/or wanting to have them evicted??

They are lucky I'm not expecting again but I think the hormones would send me over the edge!!

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NoMoreMadCatLady · 09/09/2013 10:53

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burberryqueen · 09/09/2013 10:53

do that, just push it outside when you need to get past.

rumpledtitskin · 09/09/2013 10:57

Dodie

I'm at work so haven't read whole thread but I would suggest ringing your local fire station to request a home fire safety visit for you and mention your concerns about your escape route being obstructed.

And yabu for saying you want to smash it, but I'm sure you know that. Wink

MortifiedAdams · 09/09/2013 11:00

Agree - you need the space so move it outside every time and dont put it back.

rumpledtitskin · 09/09/2013 11:01

Oh, just seen others have advised this also.

We have a fire safety enforcement department here too who will issue notices if landlords don't follow advice.

He11y · 09/09/2013 11:08

Is yours like the picture from the other thread, OP?

If so, that is crazy!

I'm afraid it would have been on the street by now if we were you!

It is definitely a fire hazard!

They'd be the first to complain if their baby died in a fire because the fire brigade couldn't get in, no doubt!

Pobblewhohasnotoes · 09/09/2013 11:14

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Pobblewhohasnotoes · 09/09/2013 11:14

Oh FFS stupid phone.

Fold it up and plonk it right outside their front door.

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 09/09/2013 11:23

If it was me I would consider buying a massive cheap second hand pram and leaving it in the hall permantly. But I am a petty minded git.

The suggestions to bombard the management company and possibly threaten to withhold payment is probably the most sensible.

twistedtoffee · 09/09/2013 11:28

I would not withold payment as you will just end up paying legal costs on top of your fee. I would write to the Management Company saying the buggy is causing an obstruction and a fire risk, the Management Company have been made aware of this on x number of occasions and you would not like, it writing, the legal position should someone be injured as a result of this couple being allowed to remain in rented accommodation whilst repeatedly ignoring an important condition of the lease.

twistedtoffee · 09/09/2013 11:28

Sorry, would NOW like in writing

ExitPursuedByADragon · 09/09/2013 11:29

I thought I had déjà vu as that other thread was one of the first I read on here!

I would push it outside.

Inconsiderate twats.

EeyoreIsh · 09/09/2013 11:42

gosh, you're well within your rights to keep complaining. yy to getting the fire brigade along to do a fire safety check (although they might flag up other expensive issues...).

criminal damage is obviously wrong, but I don't see how you can manage with a small baby, so pushing the buggy out of the way/folding it up is clearly acceptable.

Wallison · 09/09/2013 11:50

Why is their washing on the bannister a fire hazard? Confused

MyNameIsSuz · 09/09/2013 14:52

We're not allowed to keep anything in our communal areas, even tucked away underneath the stairs where it couldn't possibly be in anyone's way. The reason given by our management company is that anything that's technically a fire hazard would invalidate the building insurance in the event of a fire. I don't know if it's true, but worth looking into.

atrcts · 09/09/2013 15:14

Put your complaint in writing - they'll be scared about the document trail if anything were to happen because they neglected to truly sort the problem tenants.

eurochick · 09/09/2013 15:25

I agree to keep complaining to the management company, emphasising the fire hazard point.

In the mean time, keep folding it down and shoving it out of the way.

agedknees · 09/09/2013 15:31

If the flat is leasehold, your neighbours landlord might be in breach of his lease because of his renters (lease states nothing housed in communal areas). Maybe exert some pressure on the landlord to stop his tenants behaving irresponsibly.

intitgrand · 09/09/2013 18:15

If there kid is 3 surely he isn't going to be in a pushchair much longer!

intitgrand · 09/09/2013 18:15

their

Avalicious1980 · 09/09/2013 21:07

YADNBU I would feel exactly the same and I know this because I have been in a similar situation. Keep ringing the management company about it, I did that and it did eventually get sorted. They sound scummy.....clothes in the hallway....yak!! Very rude!!

MrsGarlic · 09/09/2013 21:18

They are being ridiculous. We live in a similar situation except we are upstairs. We have a huge Stokke pram and a Maclaren buggy. I take them both up the stairs. I don't see why our neighbours should have to fight their way around MY prams! I would just keep putting it outside TBH and if they kick off, calmly point out that you had to move it as it was blocking the access to your flat and just repeat. If it was me, I'd move it to outside THEIR door if I could - appreciate not easy if you are pregnant/bad back etc.

jessieagain · 09/09/2013 21:19

You need to keep reporting it, it is a fire safety issue and you are obliged to report it.

Bambamb · 09/09/2013 21:23

Just put it outside the front door every time you need to get past and leave it there.

Snazzyenjoyingsummer · 09/09/2013 21:24

Yes, keep pestering the management company so it is less of an annoyance to deal with them than it is to fob you off. Good luck.

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