I really don't know.
I'm fed up with him anyway at the moment, every little thing he does and says annoys me, so that may be clouding my judgment.
He announced at 8am this morning that he thought he'd go fishing.
"That's fine" I said.
He said "well, we've got no plans for today have we?"
I said "no, just the usual, washing, cleaning, ironing etc etc."( I was annoyed actually, I don't feel like I could take off for half the day. I said in the week I wanted to paint the kitchen today and he moaned, saying I should do it in the evenings when the dds are in bed, rather than spoil our relaxing Sunday)
He then said it would be nice if I brought the dds down to see him for an hour so they could watch him fish and do some Blackberrying. I obviously didn't look keen, so he said "but the dds would love to come fishing with me".
So I said "take them with you then?" He replied, "I can't for 4 hours" so I suggested he went for a shorter time then.
At this point, he stomped off
I know it's boring, sorry!
I just don't know if I'm being selfish feeling pissed off that he can announce he's off for half the day.