to hate this "D"C, "D"H, "D"D business

[kitnkaboodle]

... and wonder if everyone else hates it too and is just to afraid to break the cycle! I'm a relative newcomer to posting on forums, and I'm sure there is some hilarious origin to the tradition. But:

• it now just looks and sounds twee
• it isn't humorous in any way
• you'd all save yourselves a keystroke if you just typed D, H, P, M, C, etc...?? Still perfectly understandable

There are some ambiguities I guess - S for son or sister? but that's still there whether or not you drop the D anyway ..

Go on .. I dare you ...

As TheDoctrine says, DH etc really is clearer than just H etc, because after a short while you automatically register that the two-letter combination beginning with D means a person, and it makes it much easier to skim-read.

You see, when I type DH or DD, I don't think in my head "dear husband". He's just DH and that's that. Which probably tells you I've been on MN too long.

"But instead some posters put DD3 to mean their DD is 3 years old. More confusion!"

It's probably a newbie - and the error will probably be pointed out (nicely, one hopes).

Acronym guide is at the top of the page (just to the left of FAQs)

"D" also stand for dratted, damned, dastardly, dreadful (add your own here).

See I only ever read DH as Dear Husband, Not even Darling Husband!

It's standard internet forum shorthand. Not exclusive to MN. (Ikr. Amazingly MN did not invent the internet)

DH is now DH in real life so I can't change, sorry.

I don't mind that.
I do however hate bro with a passion.

I draw the line beyond immediate family. DN could be niece of nephew or nan so is too confusing.

I'm not a fan. And it is ridiculous to suggest that if you choose to type 'husband' you should fuck off to another forum.

I don't like it either, it gives me the dry boak.

I don't do it.

I refer to "son 1" "son 2" and "husband". Doesn't mean I don't like him because he is not a "D" husband.

In fact he said only about five minutes ago "the only time you call me Dear is when you're being sarcastic".

Yanbu, it's silly, but you don't have to use it. I don't.

Personally I like the fact that I can use the first D to mean anything from Darling to Dreadful depending what I'm posting. It's not compulsory, you decide whether to use it or not.

who the fuck cares!! use what you like.

I just CBA to type it out. The D is just the abbreviation to me, I have never called him 'darling' although 'dear' is often used sarcastically. I came across these abbreviations online way before I discovered the delights of this place!

So don't use them.

But they are not MN special. They've been used on the internet for years before MN even existed.

MN did not create the internet or acronyms.

Prefer OF (Old Fart) rather than DH but we are old

Ah but then where would we be when we wanted to drop the 'D' to signify that 'H' was no longer in the good books?

Man I have been here too long, this must be the 5,000th thread I've seen like this, I only came on to play 'reply bingo' with myself. Meditrina thank you so much for enlivening it with the fabulous 'idiolect' that is a great word which I am going to be desperate to shoe horn into conversation, now has anyone seen any threads where a man comes on and mansplains to us where we are all going wrong? It's a quiet evening and I need some entertainment.

I didn't use it when I first started using the page but soon realised that it was easier to understand what other people were talking about if I got into the habit. Now I sometimes type things out in full, esp if I am referring to several people with the same acronym (such as niece/ nephew), or I use DSis for sister etc. It can get a bit confusing at times when there are lots of characters being mentioned.

I hate it, always have since I started using message boards (10+ years, so not a newbie) and it smacks of tweeness even though I use it.

I cannot bring myself to use the acronym BD (baby dance). -Vomits into a bucket

Use it/don't use it, I don't care!! I really don't!! Sorry for you that you feel so strongly about it that you had to start a thread in AIBU about it though.

Yes, YABU!!

Jesus, some of you are unwelcoming bastards. Telling someone to fuck off because they dared to criticise your beloved forum is pathetic.

pianodoodle (and others) no one cares if you choose to type out husband, son, daughter etc - they only care when someone whinges about an internet wide abbreviation or when they type things like hubby. bubba, little man etc.

I don't mind them and use them but don't if you object, you don't have to!

You are just wrong!

I even think DH, DS, DMil etc. in my head. I have to be careful in RL not to give the game away.