I've n/c for this but am a regular, just don't want this linked to me as I think DH knows my user name.
He has always been quite hirsute and it's never bothered me, I quite like some of it in fact - bit like having a real life teddy bear! But as he's got older he's got hairier in places that are less appealing - like his back - and I find it really gross.
I know I should accept him as he is as I would expect him to do if something happened that changed my appearance, and I know it's not his fault, just one of those things, but it's really putting me off touching him, I can't help it.
I think what really pisses me off is that he refuses to do anything about it. I was very overweight for a while, I realised it wasn't ideal so I (slowly and with a lot of effort) lost weight. I could accept this if it was something he had no choice about but he could easily go and get waxed or something - he doesn't seem to care though, finds it funny in fact (nervous laughter though maybe?) and makes no attempt to hide it from me - he just lumbers into bed all naked and hairy and doesnt even think of putting a tshirt on despite knowing I hate seeing it.
I'm prepared to be told I'm being a cow, I know I should be more tolerant and love him as he is but surely he should make some effort to ensure I still find him attractive?