I've been with Dp for 3 months. He's a really lovely guy but there's something holding me back. It's all very superficial things but they do bother me. I'm going to sound like a total bitch but here goes....
Firstly he pouts in photos and sits with a duck face if he wants a kiss. It makes me cringe. He's started just sitting with his phone showing me pictures of himself, focusing on a recent holiday of him with his top off, all the time blatantly fishing for compliments - 'look at that rotten body' while shoving the phone in my face. Then there's the sex.... He makes noises like he's a porn star. I'm not exaggerating it's like 'oh yeah, OH YEAH, I'm going to come baby!!' Imagine this with a slight hint of American accent.
On a more serious note, I have a lot of gay/lesbian friends. He knows this so it's pretty obvious not to make any derogatory comments about homosexuals in my company. Whenever a 'gay scene' comes on TV he starts with 'that's disgusting, I don't know how anyone can do that, it's so wrong etc etc!' I've told him that I get it's odd to him but there's really no need to make a big song and dance about it. He still does it.
I know these are all very superficial things and extremely first world problems but I just need to know if I'm bu in letting these things bother me. I'm prepared for a flaming!