Riiiiggghhhht....DS nearly 9 months
I know I'm lucky - he's a good baby who eats and sleeps well after a rough start. A placid little chunky thing.
He's pretty flexible and I've tried not to be a slave to routine in that he will sleep when out but I do like to have one of his naps at home during the day at least and at least three times a week, we potter about near or at home to let him have quieter days and not get too overtired as now hes a bit bigger and mire interested in things, he diesnt slerp as well shen out and about. He has the reputation in the NCT class as being the "easy" baby - through them observing him snoozing off quite happily etc rather than any boasting by me!
Now to the issue, there is a girl who hasn't made many of the meet ups. Her baby seems to be more "difficult" I can't think of the appropriate word and that is her description she often calls off at the last minute (she must have had at least 6 friends emigrating abroad that she just found out about on the day they were leaving which coincidentally is our meet up day-- no problem - no one's obliged to come.
However, where I'm getting a bit annoyed is that she has asked to meet up with me separately on 4 occasions. The first 3 she has cancelled on the morning of the day. Last Monday, she cancelled due to the fact that she and get DS had a very bad cold. No problem - I just arranged to meet up with two other friends for a coffee. Where it got slightly embarrassing was that whilst we were sitting in the coffee shop window, we saw her walk past. She did a huge double take and looked totally embarrassed. She was with another friend and when we mentioned about the colds and glad to see that she and DS were up and about for a walk, the friend looked a bit 
. So it was all a bit cringe.
Anyway, she texted me and asked to meet up today. I usually always go to near where she lives (about 6 miles away) to meet up but this time I asked if we could meet near me as that's more convenient for me tiday and I think we should the load of going to meet each other. That's polite, right? We both drive. I've just had a text asking if I can come to her house as her DS is crawling and won't sit still
I'm feeling pissed off. I have to pay for parking where she lives and I don't really want to do a 12 mile round trip for her convenience - I feel everything is done for her convenience and there's never any consideration of mine and DS'. I'm also nearly 20 weeks pregnant again and whilst I'm bit precious about it, I don't really want to lug DS in to her house in his seat. I normally have to park about 500 yards away down a hill (oy on street, paid parking). Prams are not allowed inside but have to be outside in an unsecured bit and I don't really want to have to take DS into the house, go back with the pram and repeat when we leave.
DH thinks she's a piss taker and I should just say no, sorry. Doesn't suit. He's normally quite live and let live. Howrver, he thinks I should just be politely unavailable for any further meet up suggestions. But I don't want to be OTT.
AIBU to follow DH's suggestion or am I actually being unkind and need to appreciate the fact that I should be going out of my way for other people sometimes?