Or am I BU ?
My son has been dating this young girl for about 2 months it's all very intense
My son is 16 and his gf is 15 ... He frequently request to stay at her house .... I've refused for a few reasons
- children are far more sexually aware than when i was younger ..
- they've been hanging out for very little time although they spend every waking hour together
- I don't know the home set up ... She has an injunction against her mum or vice versa ... There's an injunction somewhere .. She lives with her aunt
- I don't want them rushing into anything
They all meet up in secret ...
The young girl has gone away for 10 days with her aunt leaving my son a bit crestfallen , however the mum has taken has taken him under her wing .... I've never met any of them as
- they are 15/16 it's very early days
- he's 16 and it's only very recently I've given him
Quite a bit of freedom
He stayed over the mothers last night , as I said the daughter is on holiday , there was a " family party " he's got on with all of the family members he's met so far ...
He asked to meet the rest of the family members and he asked if he could stayed the night .....
I have just phoned to speak to her for the very first time as this is the most significant time he's spent at her hoide and I get a text
"she's cooking dinner she daid ring later "
I am pissed off as this is will be the first time I've spoken to her
My DP thinks its very strange that he's staying at the gf mothers house as she's away
Dinner can effin wait .... She's cooking for my son and Her i rvin that an effort should be made ...
I know it's not all about me and she shouldn't be at my beck and call but
I put all of my callers on speaker phone so I can prepare dinner and speak to them at the same time , I I did this with my sister earlier today
Why is my son texting the message , why don't she put the potato peeler down and send a text or like I say just press the speaker button
I just find it rude
Very rude