My nan will be 90 in January and my mum and dad are going to visit them, I'd love to go, I haven't seen my Australian family for about 10 years. DS is 5 and DD will be 3 and I'd love them to meet my family.
DP doesn't want to go. We have been before pre children, he runs his own business and doesn't want to take that amount of time off work to go back to Aus at this point and his idea of 3 weeks in with my family probably fills him with dread 
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He says he doesn't really mind me going, but I know he will miss the kids terribly, and them him. I feel a bit torn as I desparately want to go, but can't quite decide whether I'm being selfish. Obviously I would rather he came with me, but he doesn't want to????