ds 6 saw porn

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I went out with dh.Good friend and her son (6) came to stay over/babysit.
Her ds had a new ipad.I didn't think to ask her if it had security locking.I regret that.I also do not blame her.

The boys were in his room.I agreed they could stay up late and went out.
In the morning after friends had left DS approached me, giggling and said...

'last night xx typed in boobs in the ipad.Cut a long story short were upstairs for a good hour or so looking up boobs

" boobs rubbing against each other, old long boobs??? WTF women kissing and giggling around.

Upon further questioning there were no men in the images and VIDEOS they watched.

I feel upset, and that this is premature! I am upset.

I told him we all have boobs and bits, me , your grandmother, your friends mums.They are normal.

AIBU to feel upset? DH is a bit whatever, shame ,but it is normal boy behaviour

One click is all it takes. Lovely.

Also, how come when I type in boobs all this gross stuff jumps out of the screen and when the boys did it is was just boobs.It just does not sit right with me.

I tried it for you

There is some porn stuff but there are also some relatively tame Sun articles about "thinking your boobs bigger" and a Dawn Porter blog about breast cancer near the top

if your boy is ok, there is no reason to mistrust what he says he has seen

6yo's are rarely so knowing as to lie about something like this, honestly

I am not telling school.DS seems to find whatever he saw as funny and whatever it was he does not understand it in its context.He said to me that the lady was trying to squeeze milk into a cup??

How depressing.

I am genuinely grateful to mn tonight.

Different searches turn up different results, especially very generic ones. If I search boobs I won't get all the same results as you. If I search boobs on my iPad now and DH does it on the laptop, both of which have no parental controls we get quite different results, same as when I do it on my phone at the same time.

There is also stuff about bf'ing and how to avoid man boobs

it'll be ok, love, he isn't scarred for life

I am going to stop looking up boobs on the internet.

Good idea

That's what I was trying to say up thread. He probably didn't see someone trying to squeeze milk into a cup, but he has normalised what he saw into some sort of image that makes sense for him. Just keep an eye on him and keep the lines of communication open. I wouldn't tell school either.

I would honestly pour yourself a and try and take your mind off it. Your DS won't go far wrong with a caring, engaged mum like you.

(and yeah, stop googling the boobs!)

The world doesn't end if a six year old boy sees 'boobs'

I've just image search on my iPhone and you know what you get?

Loads and loads of big mostly fake tits, many of them not even naked.

If a six year old gets real porn, they'll almost certainly just go WTF don't like, don't get that and flick to the next link.

A ten year old boy, who knows the details of sex, would worry me, most sixyearold wouldn't.

In any case my six yearold DD was still BFing some evenings, so she certainly knew all about boobs and milk

No probs a six year old seeing boobs and breast feeding!

My worry has been that he saw adults having porno no pubes violent anal internet lesbian sex, whilst I went out for dinner.

As he does not seem disturbed, all that has happened in my home is that I will not allow children to play upstairs with an IPAD.Full stop.I am also reevaluating friendship with friend responsible.