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AIBU?

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Pah, a rare night out has been ruined :(

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ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 15/06/2013 00:04

Just got in from an nas fundraiser, all went well until waiting for a taxi outside a lad pointed at me and said to his mate 'there's a fat bird for ya' then pulled him over.

It's really fucked me off, it's because of people like that I wouldn't go onto pubs with my friends.

Oh and I won a cake, the irony of a fat bird on a diet winning a cake.

Wankers.

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moulesvinrouge · 15/06/2013 00:06

I am so so sorry. What a bunch of arseholes.

AgentZigzag · 15/06/2013 00:09

Why are you giving this total wankstain head space??

(I know you're thinking of your past experiences, but I also know you should fight against them and be victorious! You can always draw on the smug feeling you should get knowing you're not the type of person to be such a nasty bastard)

BouncyBallPool · 15/06/2013 00:09

Sorry to hear that its an awful feeling, happened to me once. Those twats dont know you or your personality just trying to show off. Bet he wasnt perfect looking!

Sounds like you had a good night apart from that though, dont let it spoil it.

AgentZigzag · 15/06/2013 00:11

Now, no more

Bit more and before you can get to the point you should be to at him and his ilk.

velvetspoon · 15/06/2013 00:12

Sorry, the behaviour of some men is pretty appalling.

I was out last Saturday, as I left the pub the bouncer said something to me like 'Night Gorgeous'. Effect was completely spoilt by then hearing him say to his mate as I walked away 'Yeah, she's pretty for such a big girl'

SweetestThing · 15/06/2013 00:12

You could lose weight if you want but he'll always be a pea-brained twat.

AgentZigzag · 15/06/2013 00:13

You won a fucking cake!

How can you be unhappy on MN when there's cake to be shared??

We need details of the cake, size, flavour, moisture levels etc.

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ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 15/06/2013 00:16

Im mainly pissed off because i've lost shedloads of weight and had actually dared to feel good about myself. The casual cruelty of some people saddens me.

Oh and the garfield cake keeps looking at me, im resisting a binge. Won't give the twat ( and his mates who pointed and laughed ) the satisfactiobln.

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Alisvolatpropiis · 15/06/2013 00:16

Random blokes you'll never see again,whose opinions don't matter.

IGNORE IT

OP I have no idea what dress size you are, but I don't doubt you're more likely to find a real bloke who finds you attractive is more common than a pissed up tosser who wants to insult you.

Wee pissed up tossers is all those blokes were - nothing more,nothing less.

squoosh · 15/06/2013 00:18

Ugh. How awful for you.

He won't have given it a second thought and you'll have it running through your headspace for far longer than you should.

Someone said something similar to me and my friend once. I have a very hot temper so replied along the lines of 'what did you say to me you ugly bastard? (dead classy)

All he could do was look shocked and run away.

Fuckers.

WilsonFrickett · 15/06/2013 00:19

DO NOT BINGE! please, don't just cos of one gobby arse. Don't do it x

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ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 15/06/2013 00:21

Im sending the cake into the dcs cake as its a huge Garfield with pizza slice. Plus it will play havoc with my stomach ((99% sure I have gallstones as a result of losing weight.......oh the irony))

I have tasted the cake as they handed out samples, i'm pleased to report it's a ridiculously gooey chocolate cake.. Very moist it is too.

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AgentZigzag · 15/06/2013 00:21

I'd fucking eat it just to spite them

I know it wouldn't make you feel better after, but

AgentZigzag · 15/06/2013 00:23

That looks like I was shrugging at you feeling crap, I wasn't of course.

frutilla · 15/06/2013 00:24

Don't let the b$)%^tard get to you. I can still remember when I was 15, all dolled up in a LBD and feeling good about myself, a plain middle-aged guy passed me in the street and said "legs too fat for that dress". I had eating disorders for years from comments like those. Not worth it!!

elQuintoConyo · 15/06/2013 00:27

Fuckers. Sad little shrivel-brained fuckers. I've had this, it made me feel about the size of a flea's nuts and just as squashable. Fuckers.

I send you a big unmumsnetty (((hug))) and suggest you put your faith in God - she has grand plans for such little arsewipes

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ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 15/06/2013 00:36

Couldnt even call him an ugly fucker as he was a young, trendy, not ugly type.

Hope his no doubt small and diseased penis shrivels up and rolls down his trouser leg tho.

There is always hope.

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MusicalEndorphins · 15/06/2013 06:13

ApocalypseCheeseToastie He was very ugly inside to be so mean.

Try and push the bad feelings aside, you had a good night, and won a cake! That is what matters. Not some jerk on a curb right?

MalcolmTuckersMum · 15/06/2013 06:19

Here's hoping that before too long you feel fabulous enough to deliver a withering riposte to this sort of pisswilly that will leave him red faced, tiny-dicked and wishing he'd never started with you!

NoobyNoob · 15/06/2013 06:23

The nastiness of some people astounds me. Sorry you were on the end of such a shitty comment :(

I know some people roll their eyes at this, but it's truly whats on the inside which shines through x

worsestershiresauce · 15/06/2013 06:29

What a brave man . Verbally attacking a woman. It must feel good to be such a worthless gutless spineless knob...

VIX1980 · 15/06/2013 06:30

Op i hope by now you have woken up this morning and dont still feel the same about what the little wankstain said to you. (sorry hate that word but no other description fitted better ).

Ive had it too, walking through town on a night out surrounded by my friends a lovely looking lad came up to me and gave me a hug, i was a bit surprised then he said "even fat girls need hugs". I kneed him in his bollocks and he fell to the ground while i laughed!

That may f been an extreme reaction but id had that shit for years so wasnt going to take it off some pissed tit! as someone else said you can loose weight, he will always be an immature nob, pity him and the girl who ends up with him!

PollyPlummer · 15/06/2013 06:33

I came out of a pub once and a man shouted to my dp Oi your bird looks like a man
It was in front of loads of people, they all laughed.
Some people are just dicks.

MadameOvary · 15/06/2013 06:50

If by "young trendy type" you mean:

Coiffed hair, gelled to within inch of it's life

Those appalling trousers that are like drainpipes but baggy on the arse so it looks suspiciously like they've been "caught out"

A weirdly smooth and shiny complexion

Fake tan

Scent courtesy of "Lynx bullet"

Canvas deck shoes and no socks. (Well fragrant after a night of dancing to Moves like Jagger)

Breath that smells like week old sewage after a night on the WKD blue and jagerbombs.

....or even you don't, the words were uttered by an inconsequential shitsmear.

(((Hugs)))

The NAS fundraiser sounds brilliant btw.

raisah · 15/06/2013 08:16

i would have shoved the cake in his face & said 'I dont need it but you do'

Have a lovely day. If its any consolation I get comments for being too thin, I am underweight due to a medical problem. My aunt asked me if I had cancer during a party, that upset me as I have lost quite a few loved ones to cancer. People are ignorant & stupid, the best way to educate idiots is to show them up on the spot.

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