AIBU?
To think they are fucking dirty disgusting cunts.
HeffalumpTheFlump · 02/06/2013 21:41
I'm nearly 100% sure IANBU but I just want to check as although I'm pregnant I haven't got a child yet so don't know whats normal and what's not.
My neighbours from hell have just had extremely loud sex in the flat above me whilst their one year old screamed and screamed from (I fucking hope) the other room.
This isn't fucking normal is it?? I have had a shitty arsehole cunty horrible day so I'm probably getting too upset about this, but that surely isn't right?!
ThisWayForCrazy · 02/06/2013 21:44
I find it very sad that they didn't respond to their child but continued to engage in that activity.
I personally find it very sad when people don't respond to a crying child, whatever activity they are doing, even if it is on purpose. Ie CC/CIO. The activity they were engaging in makes no difference to me,
pinkballetflats · 02/06/2013 21:54
How long did the whole thing go on for? Personally I couldn't do that, but I did once leave SC crying in the early days when I felt like the world was caving in...but was on my own, trying to get a hold of myself, not shagging my partner whilst ignoring my DC. I hope the kiddo wasn't in the same room - that would make me think that the activity going on was possibly at least partly the cause of the LO's distress.
HeffalumpTheFlump · 02/06/2013 21:57
Oh and a bit of a backstory to explain my use of the word cunts: he's a violent piece of shit who has beaten her infront of the child and she is someone who has repeatedly put her need for a relationship infront of her child's safety despite being offered all the help in the world. This is just the next awful thing they have done. Yes SS are involved by the way.
pinkballetflats · 02/06/2013 22:01
So in reality...the child, if witnessing, could very well have been terrified...poor kid.
All the help in the world...is this the same violent partner all the way through you knowing them? I've never been in a violent relationship, but I have been in an abusive one...it can be hard to leave even with help. Could she do with a friend?
Schmoozer · 02/06/2013 22:08
If ss are already involved,
Then i would suggest ringing and talking to duty desk tomorrow morning,
Just say what you heard, no judgement, just that the child was crying whilst ......
It may help ss with their case any info that you can pass on.
It could help ss intervene more effectively for the child.
Shitty for you, shitty for the kid.
Yes, the parents sound like cxxxts
I think u have every right to be upset :(
passmetheprozac · 02/06/2013 22:09
he's a violent piece of shit who has beaten her infront of the child and she is someone who has repeatedly put her need for a relationship infront of her child's safety despite being offered all the help in the world
Nice bit of compassion calling a woman in a violent relationship a cunt.
How do you know that this woman is having sex with her violent abusive partner because she is scared about what he will do to her and her child if she doesn't?
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