as she pootles along in her grannymobile. I can't cope with being a passenger in her car. I get very anxious because she likes to stick to 20mph in 30mph zones, 30mph in 40mph zones and so on. She also has to stop at every single roundabout; she won't check the traffic on approach and keep moving onto the roundabout if it's clear, she has to come to a standstill and then check. She brakes for every bend in the road, even on roads she travels every day and knows like the back of her hand. She thinks she's being supremely safe and sensible. I think she's going to cause an accident one day.
Fucking hell my blood pressure just rocketed just reading that!
The roundabout thing drives me demented there are no other vehicles in sight, why the FUCK are you stopping!!!
This is the utterly inept driving that I'm talking about, and these people are dangerous because they are behaving unpredictably and not according to the rules of good driving. She's not being safe and sensible; safe and sensible drivers are always looking ahead as far as they can see at all times.
So many drivers are only looking at what is right in front of them, not what is ahead of and behind them. I was taught to always look as far ahead as possible, and if you can't see very far (ie coming into a corner), have your foot off the accelerator and over the brake.
I wouldn't ever tailgate someone who is at or near the speed limit (or considerably lower if conditions are bad). However if I'm looking to overtake someone, then I'll be quite close behind them, yes, waiting for a chance. On a stretch of road that isn't going to let me overtake, I'll drop back.
If someone is driving like an idiot doing 35/40mph in a 60 limit in clear conditions, braking on every corner and slowing down randomly, then yes sometimes I'll be right up their arse in exasperation and hope that I'll be able to get past them. I don't do it often though.
If someone persistently tailgates me when I'm doing the speed limit (happens often when I slow down to 40 or 30 when the limit changes down) then I'll touch my brakes so that my lights show. That usually gives them a hint.