PIL look after our DD a couple of days a week, which we are very very grateful for. Up until now (2 years) it has always taken place at their own house. I drop off and pick up after work.
We moved last week, and PIL asked to start bringing her back to our new house for her tea.
As much as I hate the thought of people being in my house when I'm not there, they are actually trying to help us as house is further away, so of course, I am happy to do whatever they wish.
I'm just home to be told they had SIL around to house and showed her around. SIL aren't close, she is a bone idle opinionated so and so, and asa such, would just rather she wasn't in my home when I wasn't there. PIL continue to push a relationship between us.
I'm hacked off that they think it's ok to have people in our home when we aren't there.
Im wary of saying anything as I know how lucky we are that they are able and happy to do so much childcare.
Do I put up and shut up? Do I nip this in the bud now?