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Sick of having to be Politically Correct over nearly everything

585 replies

SickofThisCountry · 04/04/2013 01:47

Dont want to cause some big debate but is anyone else on here getting sick to the back teeth of having to watch their p's and q's through fear of offending every tom, dick and harry.

OP posts:
AmberLeaf · 04/04/2013 14:57

I do not think SN is the same as being naughty

You sure?

Lottashakingoinon · 04/04/2013 14:58

sorry for living in "middle England

Yeah, so am I! The lack of ethnic diversity is one of the main reasons I hanker to go back to London (yep PC loopy that's me)

I don't disagree with the benefits of RL over MN but living in the sort of one horse community that I do, sometimes MN reminds me that there is a real world beyond here, especially threads like this where it seems the majority are in touch with reality!

joiemecconue · 04/04/2013 14:59

I don't know how the press should deal tactfully with an increase in 'anti-social' behaviour when travellers are nearby, it is not as if your nice indigenous to the area people are never committing similar acts or as if all members of the travelling community always do either. An increase in population, however temporary, will increase the rates of most types of offending and there is probably much higher local vigilance and willingness to report fairly minor instances when travellers are nearby.

ByTheWay1 · 04/04/2013 15:00

Yes AmberLeaf, I'm sure...

HerrenaHarridan · 04/04/2013 15:05

You know I don't mean to swim against the tide here but...

If mn wasn't so pc I wouldn't get deleted for calling op a knob

I do think people should be able to say whatever they like, then we know who to round up and shoot

Have you ever actually seen the edl website, scary stuff!

On a lighter note I once had an invitation to give oral sex to a fascist stood under a poster portraying a presumably Muslim woman wearing a head scarf (not covering her face)
With 'blood' leaking from the joins of face and clothes and some cliche about womens lib.
If that wasn't ironic enough I was stood behind the police lines at an anti-fash demo at the time.

Fucking pillock!

Pagwatch · 04/04/2013 15:21

I don't understand your sarcastic reference to SN children never being naughty then tbh.

TheNebulousBoojum · 04/04/2013 15:30

So, ByTheWay, what did you mean by the comment

'I know there are a lot of SN children, I know there are a lot of kids who misbehave too - what I don't "get" I guess is why kids with SN never misbehave' ?

Dawndonna · 04/04/2013 15:34

Nebulous Now is the time to use 'onanist'! Grin

My special needs children are never naughty. Noisy, sulky, provocative, funny, clever, gorgeous, occasionally spiteful to one another, usually very supportive of one another. Oh, just like the rest of the population!

Pagwatch · 04/04/2013 15:39

Ds2 has a great line in naughtiness. I am enjoying ATM his habit of asking me for a brownie and, if I say no, asking his dad for one as soon as I leave the room.
If dh asks if he asked me already he shakes his head.
Fortunately he then giggles, points at himself and shouts 'very naughty'

So not doing too well at the life of crime really. Grin

seeker · 04/04/2013 15:40

Right. Come on all you anti pc people. A challenge

Tell me one thing you want to say that political correctness prevents you from saying.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 04/04/2013 15:44

oh no , this will be grim reading.

MrsDeVere · 04/04/2013 15:45

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Lottashakingoinon · 04/04/2013 15:48

Popcorn anyone?

Fenton · 04/04/2013 15:50

Oh crickey Seeker, are you bored too? Grin

seeker · 04/04/2013 15:53

Don't worry, everyone, I've done this before. You're quite safe.

TheNebulousBoojum · 04/04/2013 15:54

Ummmm

Fenton · 04/04/2013 15:56
MrsDeVere · 04/04/2013 15:57

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

seeker · 04/04/2013 16:00

Hold steady, people.

Lottashakingoinon · 04/04/2013 16:06

Okay I have to go out now in reality got fed up with the DV woman's fidgetting! When I get back later tonight I want to see all the responses neatly catalogued and cross referenced. Seeker it was your idea so you're in charge!

AmberLeaf · 04/04/2013 16:06

Shhh....he's thinking Grin

Tortington · 04/04/2013 16:19

i dont really think anything prevents me from saying anything - clearly :)

ByTheWay1 · 04/04/2013 16:24

It is more a feeling..... a feeling that no matter what you say someone will be offended .

For gay marriage - what about the Christians/Muslims?
Against - what about love/civil rights?
For immigration - what about the jobs?
Against - who is going to do the jobs?

So everybody gives wishy washy answers or they are labelled bigots by one side or the other... conversations become dull and boring and plain old vanilla ...

I have views somewhere in the middle - immigration - yes, we need diversity, we need different skill sets, but we don't need ghettos, we do need integration all through the communities, but people want to live where their friends and family live, but..... -

but whenever you start the conversation people INSTANTLY pick on whatever point you've made that they disagree with and it becomes all about that - so I just shut up... just saying the word ghetto is seen as un-PC - so maybe that is one of the things I would like to talk about that I feel uncomfortable talking about in the PC age....

I don't understand the list thing - sorry...

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 04/04/2013 16:25

people being offended or not agreeing with you is NOT people being "PC", that's just a silly meaningless phrase.

It's just errr..people being offended due to their personal circumstances , or having a different viewpoint.

seeminglyso · 04/04/2013 16:27

Just noticed the OP's username 'sickofthiscountry'....why because you feel you cant be a biogot?