Me and my ex broke up when our daughter was 6months, so around 4 years ago now.
It was a very mutual decision and we even stayed living together until she was 1. We do quite a few things as a family, such as he comes over for dinner or we go out or we go to the cinema etc.
I really enjoy his company and he really is one of my best friends. But we don't work as a couple and would never consider getting back together.
He has now been seeing someone for a year and she had just moved in, and is pregnant with his child - I'm really happy for him and DD seems to like her and is excited about a new brother.
However the gf has said she doesn't want ex to do family things anymore, as it would be unfair on her child when he gets older because he will be seeing his dad be a father to a different family.
When I first found out they were serious I offered for her to be a part of these activities but she declined saying it would be weird.
I just feel so sad, I feel like I've lost a really good friend and that DD has lost out too.
Aibu?
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to want to hang out with my ex? or is his new girlfriend the unreasonable one?
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HidingNemo · 27/03/2013 13:32
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