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to be annoyed at number of people who write

81 replies

Sallyingforth · 19/02/2013 22:49

should of ...
could of ...
would of ...
etc.

The word is have !!!

OP posts:
NoisesOff · 19/02/2013 22:50

Yup, I hear you.

YANBU.

sarahbean123 · 19/02/2013 22:50

YANBU. It makes me irrationally angry.

MerryCouthyMows · 19/02/2013 22:50

YANBU. It sets my teeth on edge.

someoftheabove · 19/02/2013 22:51

Maybe you shouldn't of started this thread - you might of made it worse ...

stargirl1701 · 19/02/2013 22:52

YANBU. It is a damning entitlement of our education system. And, I'm a teacher.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 19/02/2013 22:52

Now, is one annoyed at something, or by something? And should one of capitalized the first letter of an OP? Are multiple exclamation marks Not Quite The Done Thing?

TheChaoGoesMu · 19/02/2013 22:52

Does it matter that much? Why would you feel annoyed about it?

someoftheabove · 19/02/2013 22:54

And don't get me started on "ten items or less"!

Dannilion · 19/02/2013 22:54

YANBU. It's almost as bad as pacifically anythink.

Wolfiefan · 19/02/2013 22:56

One of my students was really confused when I explained the word wasn't "probaly".
Saints preserve me.

someoftheabove · 19/02/2013 22:56

Oh, me, too, Dannilion. But My favourite was Supernanny saying something was "unasseptable". Fab.

Booyhoo · 19/02/2013 22:59

it annoys me when people start threads to bitch about other people's writing when they dont bother to put all the words required in the title.

pot kettle black

frogspoon · 19/02/2013 23:00

YANBU to "aks"

VanitasVanitatum · 19/02/2013 23:01

Star girl, I think the word you were looking for is indictment..

stargirl1701 · 19/02/2013 23:02

Indeed. Grin

someoftheabove · 19/02/2013 23:03

Oh, well spotted, VV - and she's a teacher! Yikes!

Sallyingforth · 19/02/2013 23:05

LRDtheFeministDragon I think I would have said:

"And should one have capitali s ed"

but I will reluctantly accept the z thing (as long as it's pronounced 'zed')

OP posts:
LRDtheFeministDragon · 19/02/2013 23:06

Nope. Oxford spelling rules allows 'z' in those words. It's from the Greek 'izein' endings of verbs, or so they tell me.

I have to admit I don't give a flying fuck about it, but you might want to know.

drjohnsonscat · 19/02/2013 23:06

*TheChao" it matters because it shows absolutely no understanding of the sort of word being used here. It's actually not just a simple mistake, like a typo. It's quite a deep misunderstanding of how that sort of construction works.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 19/02/2013 23:06

Funnily enough, the 'of' bit was deliberate, though.

woopsidaisy · 19/02/2013 23:07

I will admit that I probably make many errors, but there is something that really jars. I was sat on the bus. He was stood over there. And so on. It is everywhere! Horrible. It just sounds so wrong.
My DH has been ranting about something else.
So, he has noticed that people are starting to begin conversations, emails and reviews etc with 'so'-see above. It is driving him crazy when he is sitting at his desk in work.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 19/02/2013 23:07

I don't see how it's a deeper misunderstanding than anything much else, really.

Sure, it's someone who thinks you form that tense with 'of' instead of 'have', but so what?

apostropheuse · 19/02/2013 23:07

I get itchy when people start sentences with "And" or "But".

I may just be showing my age though, it appears to be perfectly acceptable now.

FaceLikeAPickledOnion · 19/02/2013 23:09

It makes me not want to post when there are people like you around Op.
My grammar is poor, as was my education, but i try, I might not always get things right but coming out with your red fucking pens to put everyone's mistakes right pisses me right off.

drjohnsonscat · 19/02/2013 23:10

The z thing is annoying. I am responsible for all the written output in my firm. We enforced the UK English dictionary in all our templates so that any word like "nationalized" would come up as a misspelling. Not because it is wrong per se (although I prefer the s spelling) but because we wanted consistent use and we'd settled on "nationalised". Then they bloody well went and put the Z spelling in all the dictionaries - so now people use the s and the z willy nilly and I can't find any way to enforce a single rule.