Do dd2 is 7 weeks and is hard work. I feel like I can't figure her out or enjoy her as she's crying/whinging most of the time. My back hurts from trying to calm her down. Dd 1 is 2 1/2 and did have colic, but not this bad. Now she is incredible and keeping me sane...then I feel guilty that I am favouring her.
Dh does do lots, but not with dd2. Asked him to have dd2 while I put dd1 to bed last night. I could hear him snapping at her twice, so I went and got her. Felt really angry that he couldn't hold it together for 5mins. He said I snap/cry, but I do it after hours or no sleep at night...not that that's good! But he was nice and appologetic this morning.
Just exhausted and down! No romance - no valentines, well i got a text message! Then this afternoon he snapped about having to spend 15 mins with dd2, while I popped to the shop and got DD1 from nursery. I pointed out that he gets to go to the pub, a stag weekend and has asked to go to the pub again tomorrow afternoon. I just want 5 poxy mins to go to the shop on my own - which is how sad my poxy life is!!! He did appologise, but said he just can't stand it - i think he means the whinging crying baby stage - in fact he hates it.
It all feels worse on a stupid day when everyone is showing off how in love they are.
And amongst all this he wants me to move back to oz with him - feeling a bit miserable!