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to get annoyed with friends latest comment?

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MascaraMegan · 06/02/2013 23:11

I feel like I am because I know I'm sensitive but anyway ...

I am a very insecure person (getting much better though). Me and my friend took an exercise class together. I had my hair up in a ponytail each week and I always pull parts down (I always have my hair down as it's almost like a safety blanket) - friend would constantly comment saying - eurgh how can you have your hair like that, doesn't that annoy you? it would really annoy me! Even when I explained she still said it.

Or once in the class (it was a hot day) she decided to wear really tiny shorts, I wouldn't have the guts to do that so worn thin leggings instead - and as soon as she saw me she commented saying - OMG why are you wearing those?! You are going to boil.

These are just a couple of examples.

She knows I am not the most confident of people and I just hate having attention brought to why I'm wearing what I'm wearing etc.

Anyway tonight we were discussing what we were going to wear to a friends birthday and I said I'm wearing a new skirt that I bought last week.

Her reaction - "Oh my god, you're NOT wearing jeans? I can always rely on you to wear jeans. If I know you're going anywhere then I know it's safe to wear a pair of jeans"

Now I am being sensitive, so probably deserve a virtual slap. But I don't know ... it just really irked me.

OP posts:
ithasgonetotheopera · 07/02/2013 18:22

I would be offended too. Unnecessarily personal isn't it?

HollaAtMeBaby · 07/02/2013 20:05

YABU and massively oversensitive. These are your issues, you've admitted it in your OP. Work on that instead of expecting people to walk on eggshells around you! I can't really see why either of you wants to be friends with the other tbh.

Patchouli · 07/02/2013 21:42

I think your friend sounds the most insecure.

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