That you disregard dc safety

[bongobaby]

Exp has dc on contact visit once a month. He turns up without car seat for dc. I got so fed up of his disregard in keeping dc safe on car journeys that I had it written into the court order that he was to bring a suitible car seat for dc. Is it to much to ask that he pays attention to this ffs its only one time a month. He refuses to go out and buy one. Dc should be properly restrained in a car by law,not just me being difficult as exp puts it.

The bloke is an arse whom I think is using ds to play his shitty mind games.
Gimme its what I have been doing for years trying to get payment from him, it,s pretty hard when his response is "over my dead body will you get any money out of me".
How dare he tell ds that he can sell things from our house just what sort of twat is he? And its plain to see that he had (mine from last time) a car seat all along just wants to make me look bad infront of ds if I say no you can,t go with daddy with no car seat knowing that he had it all along...

Yes he should but he isn',. so you have to.He has an easy way to wind you up. Don't bite. Put your kid first and rise about it

Eh ? What the what? Phone are you serious?

Some of them have this mind set that they are giving you money for yourself, not for the child. My Ex does this and says 'but you get child benefit, you shouldn't need anything else'.... yes, because that goes so far towards the cost of bringing up a child
I am trying to live with the idea that the financial sitaution is the cost of gettting rid of the twat, and I have as little to do with him as possible. Occasionally however, I lose the plot. Like you, it was DV etc, but I am now in the position that I am no longer afraid of him. Him realising that has changed things. Bullies are cowards underneath, and he is afraid that you are no longer his to control.

Christ on a bike - i feel sorry for your kids