Because if he hasn't it means he is just a selfish, uncaring, hard bastard.
It's the anniversary of my father's death today. I have kept busy all day but now dc in bed I am feeling really sad.
It's apparent dh hasn't remembered even though I mentioned it yesterday. I said "you have forgotten what today is haven't you?" Looks confused, twigs, gives my hand a quick squeeze and goes back to laptop. This is pretty much par for the course and the height of any emotion shown towards me.
All I want is someone to put an arm around me and make me feel cared about.
I know if he is he can't help it but he refuses to find out anyway so I don't get to know whether he can't help it or whether he really doesn't give a flying fuck.
Rant over, feel a bit better.