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AIBU?

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to want my DD's boyfriend out of the house?

34 replies

WendyCapulet · 16/01/2013 04:02

My DD(20) met her boyfriend through a mutual friend, they began dating and after 2 weeks she asked if it was ok for him to stay the night, I agreed.

A month later and he's still here!!

He leaves the house to go to work and that's about it. I get the impression he is one of those people that has no friends because he's always blown people off in favour of his current girlfriend.

He eats the food here (dinner, breakfast and takes food to work), washes his clothes here, showers etc.

Am I being a precious mother by thinking this relationship is too full on? He has practically moved in and I wouldn't suggest any couple should move in together after just 2 weeks.

I don't mind him spending time here, but every single night?? aibu?

OP posts:
WhereYouLeftIt · 16/01/2013 13:27

God no don't ask for money, that just legitimises the situation! This is your home, not his!

WhereYouLeftIt · 16/01/2013 13:31

Sudden thought Wendy - does your daughter pay you dig money? Does it really not strike her that since he is getting all his meals from you that there is a cost involved?

StuntGirl · 16/01/2013 13:33

Just tell him to leave. Your house is not a hotel!

onyx72 · 16/01/2013 13:34

Agree with snoopdogg

NatashaBee · 16/01/2013 13:34

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TheCraicDealer · 16/01/2013 14:30

OP's NN is quite ironic...

Pandemoniaa · 16/01/2013 15:02

It's basic courtesy to ask if you can live in someone else's house. Staying over is one thing, moving in quite another. So I'd be raising the topic with both your dd and her bf. It might be that you are quite happy with him living in your house but there's no reason at all why he should expect you to provide him with free lodgings.

Seabird72 · 16/01/2013 15:10

She asked if he could spend the night - not move in. You need to explain that toboht of them unless you are happy with him to actually move in.

Nanny0gg · 16/01/2013 15:15

What WhereYouLeftIt said, but in stronger terms.

HTH.

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