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To be bricking it. Unexpected 'little surprise'.

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Megatron · 27/12/2012 13:39

So I'm 45. DS 9, DD 6. DH and I found out on Christmas Day that I am pregnant, due late June. I am totally crapping myself now, DH is like a dog with two tails and I will admit that I am excited but after 2 years of trying for DC 3 we kind of gave up 3 years ago and accepted it wouldn't happen and now I am quite shocked. I am really happy, I think. I guess I'm just worred about how this will affect all of us really. So there you go.

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FreeButtonBee · 12/01/2013 16:23

Oh no.so sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your lovely DH are coping okay. Be kind to yourself and each other.

LegoAcupuncture · 12/01/2013 16:24

So sorry.

LoopsInHoops · 12/01/2013 16:24

:( xxx

BrianCoxandTheTempleofDOOM · 12/01/2013 16:25

Sad so sorry Megatron, I hope you are ok (physically) and that you are able to rest and take time to come to terms with it all.

x

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Alisvolatpropiis · 12/01/2013 16:26

Sorry for your loss OP Sad

Megatron · 12/01/2013 16:30

DH is trying so hard to be strong but he's a bit rubbish at it. I heard him crying in the bathroom earlier and he came out with a big smile on his face saying he was fine, but he's not but I don't really know how to help him. We have two fantastic children that we both adore, we just so wanted this little one too.

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Cortana · 12/01/2013 16:33

I'm sorry for you loss Megatron.

GothAnneGeddes · 12/01/2013 16:40

I am so sorry to hear that Sad xxxxx

SpottyBagOfTumble · 12/01/2013 16:43

:( sorry to hear your news.

Allinonebucket · 12/01/2013 16:58

So sorry. :(

Clary · 12/01/2013 17:16

So so sorry to hear that Megatron Sad

Be good to each other and hold your loved ones close.

Ilovewaleswhenitrains · 12/01/2013 17:20

I am so sorry about your miscarriage. Could you tell your DH that you know he is upset and that's a normal reaction? Sending you a hug.

manormuppet · 12/01/2013 17:22

I'm so sorry

twinklestar2 · 12/01/2013 17:44

I'm really sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself X

DuchessofMalfi · 12/01/2013 17:58

So sorry to hear your news Megatron Sad. Could you maybe arrange to take some time off and go away for a short break just with your DH? It sounds as if you both need a rest to recover.

Proudnscary · 12/01/2013 18:02

I'm so so sorry xxx

UnexpectedItemInShaggingArea · 12/01/2013 18:02

So sorry Megatron, it's a very cruel blow. Look after yourself x

Salmotrutta · 12/01/2013 18:06

So sorry to read this. Sad

ipdipdog · 12/01/2013 18:08

I am so sorry for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

RobinSparkles · 12/01/2013 18:16

I'm so sorry. I was reading the beginning of this thread thinking how lovely. I'm truly very sorry :(.

WelshMaenad · 12/01/2013 18:22

I'm so very sorry for you loss Megatron. Take care of each other. Xx

MushroomSoup · 12/01/2013 18:48

So so sorry.