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To notice that andys mum is a single parent in toy story?

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whatalwayshappenlife · 26/12/2012 15:59

Watching toy story 3 and there's a graduation photo of andy, his mum and sister.

Thinking about it I've only just notices that it is a single parent family.

Portrays single mums in a good light.

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Heavywheezing · 26/12/2012 16:00

Dad might have died

MagicHouse · 26/12/2012 16:01

Another good reason to love Toy Story Grin

MrsJREwing · 26/12/2012 16:02

I haven't seen them all, nice to have it pointed out that it is a good slant on a lone parent.

MrsJREwing · 26/12/2012 16:02

Why do you think Dad died?

BlackholesAndRevelations · 26/12/2012 16:03

If dad died that still makes a single parent! It's good to normalise it (ie if I'm right, no explicit reference)

nannynick · 26/12/2012 16:03

Think she was single in the first Toy Story as well. They were moving house so maybe due to getting divorced.

whatalwayshappenlife · 26/12/2012 16:05

I'm not sure if he died, the younger sister was only a baby in the first film. Unless it was quite recent.

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MrsJREwing · 26/12/2012 16:07

She organised the yard sale and move alone, she drove the kids everywhere etc, no mention of a Dad.

whatalwayshappenlife · 26/12/2012 16:08

And she's made to look like a very together mother/person.

Hosting a birthday party, taking them to pizza planet, moving house.

She's not a depressed or sad woman.

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Trills · 26/12/2012 16:09

Why would this be unreasonable (or indeed unseasonable)?

MrsWolowitz · 26/12/2012 16:11

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Heavywheezing · 26/12/2012 16:13

Pixar are great at I suppose reality.what children relate to.

Nemo was brought up by his single parent dad after mum died.
Old people as main characters.

I'm sure that there are more

Northernlebkuchen · 26/12/2012 16:13

I think the likely explanation is that Dad has died very shortlybefore the first film began. Dad is never mentioned and it's quite apparent to me that Woody has a paternal relationship with Andy. In the third film mum says that Woody is 'an old family toy'. I think Woody belonged to Dad.

MrsWolowitz · 26/12/2012 16:14

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whatalwayshappenlife · 26/12/2012 16:14

Maybe it isn't trills but I was surprised to have only just noticed this by the 3rd film.

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roughtyping · 26/12/2012 16:15

Don't really understand the reasoning that dad's died.

I love Toy Story all the more because Andy's mum is a single parent.

SirSugar · 26/12/2012 16:19

In new snowman if I wasn't mistaken, single mum as well

autumnlights12 · 26/12/2012 16:22

Nemo was brought up by a single Dad, Lolz?! He's a ruddy clownfish!

MrsJREwing · 26/12/2012 16:50

Cinderella, no Mum, then no Dad
SnowWhite, no Mum
Tangled, no Dad
Enchanted, no Mum

whatalwayshappenlife · 26/12/2012 16:53

Tangled she had both parents.

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slatternlymother · 26/12/2012 16:57

Yes sirsugar I noticed that too.

I was 10 when the first Toy Story came out, I didn't even notice she was a single mum until I was about 15!

SPsFanjoIsSantasLittleHoHoHo · 26/12/2012 16:58

It's because making humans cost an awful amount on animated films so they just made one parent

PenguinBear · 26/12/2012 16:58

I've never noticed I'll watch more carefully next time.

slatternlymother · 26/12/2012 16:59

northern I thought the reference to 'old family toy' was because Woody had belonged to Andy from around toddler age, so he would be quite old in terms of toys?

FellatioNelson · 26/12/2012 17:04

I don't think there is any evidence that she is a single parent - merely that the father is not shown/mentioned, which is not the same thing. Why on earth does it portray single mums in a 'good light'? Confused She's just a good mum, single or otherwise. I don't think there is any kind of preachy message or stereotype there, one way or the other.