To not know how to address the card for my married, gay cousin

[catgirl1976geesealaying]

Is it "Mrs and Mrs xx" or "The xx's" or is either fine?

(this is for the envelope - the card is fine as first names)

It's not covered in Debretts.........

or even genius

typo fail

Cautionary tale ... I spent ages mithering about how to address the card to my pernickity doctor uncle and his girlfriend ... And the one I got back this morning was addressed to my partner and my sister!

MrsTerrysChocolateOrange I know of a stephen and steven

Are they the Steph/vens?

Last year on MN there were loads of threads about presents that people didn't want and didn't think were suitable for their children and how to stop people buying them.

This year it's all about how to address people.

I have been here too long