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to think my friend is lying about being drugged?

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LondonButterfly · 07/12/2012 17:33

So last Saturday night we had a girls night out (group of 7).

Walking to a different bar, some walking further ahead etc. I was at the back (damn ridiculous high heels!) when we reached one of my friends(A) in floods of tears. Apparently one of our friends (B) had told A that friend (C) was dead.

(Friend C was out with us at the time but was much further ahead of us). Friend A thought she'd been in some sort of accident and was inconsolable - I think obviously this was heightened with how much she had to drink.

After an argument between A and B when the truth was friend C was fine. Que friend B storming off. I called her and she said she was in a taxi on the way home.

All is forgiven now. But friend B keeps saying that she only said what she did because someone drugged her in the bar we had just left.

aibu to think she is just lying about being drugged because she's quite embarrassed about what she said?

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LondonButterfly · 07/12/2012 18:56

Already stated that friend C was really far infront, you couldn't even see her.

Not really the issue though is it?

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Catsdontcare · 07/12/2012 18:57

Well rightly or wrongly I find it rather amusing that one could be so drunk as to genuinely believe that your drinking companion had somehow managed to die at rather short notice on route to your next pub.

I don't drink anymore but even I'm quite surprised how judgy people are being about grown women getting pissed.

verytellytubby · 07/12/2012 18:58

Sounds bloody nuts!

YerMaw1989 · 07/12/2012 18:58

Why do people assume that because one person in a group is a drunk mess therefore everyone else must be.

usualsuspect3 · 07/12/2012 18:58

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Catsdontcare · 07/12/2012 18:58

Yes but what I'd friend b actually say about HOW friend c had died? I care not if she was drugged or not I just want to know what she said?!?!?

HairyGrotter · 07/12/2012 18:59

Not sure why, but this is making me laugh a bit. Fancy walking along with your group of mates, one starts balling because another mate just got killed. Right, so you'd still be plodding along, leaving the fallen comrade? Comedy gold!

Mentalists, the lot of you, and someone can't handle their drink, NEVER LEAVE A FALLEN COMRADE

usualsuspect3 · 07/12/2012 19:00

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LynetteScavo · 07/12/2012 19:02

I'm imagining friend B saying friend C had fallen down a manhole and friend A getting hysterical.

sittinginthesun · 07/12/2012 19:03

Actually, you should all be laughing at this, OP. In years to come, you'll all be looking back at the time when B told A that C had died between pubs, and A believed her.

HECTheHallsWithRowsAndFolly · 07/12/2012 19:04

I think, Yer, because I for one find it hard to believe that a stone cold sober adult could burst into tears at this when an ounce of common sense would tell them it could not be true Grin

So at the very least, two of them were wearing the wobbly boots! Grin

ditavonteesed · 07/12/2012 19:04

wow I've had some nights out in my time, this makes every one of them appear tame.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 07/12/2012 19:05

I am actually laughing out loud

HairyGrotter · 07/12/2012 19:09

I wonder how she died, any news on that little bit of the story? I twisted my ankle pretty bad in my Iron Fist 'Manslayer' shoes back in October, I could've died...one hell of a story and one hell of a way to go.

This is one of my most favourite threads ever.

GreatCongas · 07/12/2012 19:09

Perhaps the answer is that the op needs to get properly hammered so she can see everything in the same weird light that A and B do

LRDtheFeministDude · 07/12/2012 19:10
  1. If your friend says she was drugged, probably on balance it's a good idea to at least act as if you believe her. You'd feel utterly shit if you found out it was true and you hadn't been supportive of something like that.

  2. I think if this is what happens when you go out and get pissed, it's time to cut back or, erm, think happy thoughts! Imagine how much more fun you'd have had if you'd been telling slurry tall stories about dating George Clooney in your earlier years?

AViewfromtheFridge · 07/12/2012 19:11

I'm also laughing out loud. Is this for real? It'd make a great sketch!

AViewfromtheFridge · 07/12/2012 19:13

In fact, if the OP wasn't punctuated so well, I'd be asking if Sharon was out with them and whether they'd been doing t-rex on the walk.

Pantofino · 07/12/2012 19:14

I am agog at this Now thinking of roping in the Belgian MNetters (in impossible high heels) to do a Crimewatch stylee reconstruction to see how this might have happened. Grin

GoldQuintessenceAndMyhrr · 07/12/2012 19:15

So, HOW would B know that C got killed, if B and A were together, and C far ahead? And how could A possibly believe B, considering they were together, and not with C?

But more importantly, if you were 7, which letter were you? D, E, F, or were you maybe Zzzzzz ....

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AmazingBouncingBabyJesus · 07/12/2012 19:16

Ohhh this is good I can actually imagine it.

Friend A: (really whiney drunk type) Where's C?
Friend B: (drunk but not stupidly so) I don't know, up ahead somewhere.
Friend A: Oh where is she? Where has she gone B?
Friend B: She's up ahead, don't worry.
Friend A: Where's she gone, I miss C. Where is she B?
Friend B: She's fucking dead A that's where she is, she's dead!

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 07/12/2012 19:17

< squawk > at "outline in chalk"

Moominsarescary · 07/12/2012 19:17

Someone spiked my drink with an E when I was 20, bloody awful but I remember everything.

They must have drunk some to say and fall for that one. How did she die then?

HairyGrotter · 07/12/2012 19:18

I think the Butler did it...Poor C Sad