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To think you can still eat food with salt in it after a c-section?

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 21:02

Prepared to be told I'm wrong. So, is food with salt allowed after a c-section? Assuming there are no hypertension problems or other problems.

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 21:17

DH is about to eat it now. He says it tastes fine. This is one more long run of shitty things she's done to me.

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EugenesAxe · 23/11/2012 21:20

I had my nose pierced about two days before I went to the Dead Sea. Neatest and best healed hole in my body ever.

I had stitches (2nd degree tear) and I doused it in saline solution everytime I went to the loo. Healed fine.

Not liking your food... indifferent. Thinking you are stupid enough to buy her excuse... hostile all the way. I think your DH should lay off the criticism really.

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IAmLouisWalsh · 23/11/2012 21:20

Fucking hell. Send her some laxative chocolate, the ungrateful cow.

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ledkr · 23/11/2012 21:20

Just don't bother. My sil is the same. I've tried but no more.

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MrsTerryPratchett · 23/11/2012 21:21

I had a CS and hypertension and I ate salt so there SIL.

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Oblomov · 23/11/2012 21:21

She is an ungrateful nutter.

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Loislane78 · 23/11/2012 21:22

Well, she might not have eaten your soup but you made a v nice gesture and at least you're not stoopid enough to come up with what has to be the most ridiculous excuse I've heard for a while.

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Pickles77 · 23/11/2012 21:23

Just think of her enjoying her yummy hospital food fakebook Wink

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Posterofapombear · 23/11/2012 21:24

She is in for a bland couple of weeks them because you are going to have to tell everyone that she can't have salt and remind them frequently aren't you? For her own good too Wink

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Mrsjay · 23/11/2012 21:26

Oh wait Does salt bloat you maybe she has been told that I remember reading something somewhere about salt bloating you after an operation honestly but I wish i could remember the exact details

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 21:27

What pisses me off even more is that my brother is that stupid too.

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 21:29

Mrs jay if that's true, then I'll take back all my rude comments on this thread.

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StateofConfusion · 23/11/2012 21:30

What a weird bitch.

Fakebook ill be your sil, I've had 2 sections and having a 3rd in 3 wks and I've never been told to avoid salt, that would have ruined my home coming kebab after ds! Haha.

Keep the arnica, it really did do wonders after my 2nd section, she doesn't deserve the amazingness of It, or your kindness.

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Lougle · 23/11/2012 21:31

She may have been told to limit her salt intake to reduce/prevent oedema.

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 21:41

Thank You stateofconfusion. I don't think she deserves my kindness either.

Ligule, if my brother had said it was for oedema I would have understood. He pointed to his stomach and said the doctors say it will infect her cut.

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boomting · 23/11/2012 21:42

C-Sections are fundamentally just abdominal surgery. I have had surgery before, dad has recently had abdominal surgery . . . and no one has ever mentioned anything about salt to us.

Anyway, people use a salt & water solution, dabbed directly on, to prevent infection and promote the healing of new piercings.

Someone's spinning BS.

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VikingLady · 23/11/2012 22:03

If she is as bad as she sounds, why did you send her the baby clothes?! She could whistle foe help from me, with that attitude Grin

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GrumpyCynicalBastard · 23/11/2012 22:06

It's piffle. I've recently had abdominal surgery and as soon as I was able I scoffed down a huge smoked salmon sandwich with some lovely salty crisps. I remain in rude good health!

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ratspeaker · 23/11/2012 22:08

Bacteria and other pathogens cause wound infections.
Not salt ingested in food, which would be filtered out by the body.
If it was because she had high BP, oedema, felt squeamish that's another story.

Maybe the pain relief drugs have made her confused

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 22:09

Because she had asked me for them. Then she told my sister to tell me to give them to her. It's like I'm not allowed to have any more children and hers is the last so I must give her all of ds's clothes.

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CaliforniaLeaving · 23/11/2012 22:12

She was supposed to eat the Chicken soup not pour it on her wound right? Maybe your Brother forgot to tell her that part.
I'd just ignore her, she's a silly beggar.

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Fakebook · 23/11/2012 22:12

Ratspeaker, I wish you were right. I just remembered what she did to my sister and me when her dd2 was born. We went around their house and cooked food for her and dbrother and she sent it back down (was bed ridden for some reason) saying she didn't want to eat it. Can't believe I forgot that. She's just a bitch.

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Sneepy · 23/11/2012 22:16

She's sending you a message: don't ever try to help. My mad SIL sent it to me many times before it clicked. It's like she doesn't want you to be kind because she doesn't want to have to think well of you. Sorry, sucks to have an SIL like this but try not to let her get under your skin.

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ChippingInLovesAutumn · 23/11/2012 22:19

You don't have to do what she says you know. There's no way I'd have given her DS's clothes with an attitude like that, no way.

To be honest, if I was your DH I'd probably be fed up of it all by now too.

Stop trying with her, she doesn't deserve it and neither does your brother.

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IfYouCanMoveItItsNotBroken · 23/11/2012 22:25

What an arse. After my section I was told I could eat after 2.30. At quarter to 3 they came round and offered me half a slice of dry toast. I pointed to the 2 KFC meals I had just devoured and pointed out that I had sent my partner out to fetch them so he would be back at 2.30 precisely, thus not breaking their rules. I doubt I could have chosen a more salty meal (which was its appeal) and it wasn't commented upon (the salt content, not the meal itself!). Would she be the type to laugh behind your back about how gullible and foolish you are? Or is she just stupid enough to think you believe her?

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