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to be sad that we are not going to get women bishops?

146 replies

grovel · 20/11/2012 18:20

Bugger

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Minstrelsaremarvellous · 20/11/2012 19:05

QuotAs not quotes - damn you autocorrect

thebody · 20/11/2012 19:06

I am not religious but feel very angry on behalf of the many wonderful women vicars out there.

What I really can't understand is how they are allowed to get around the law like this?? Surely this is illegal.

LauriesFairyonthetreeeatsCake · 20/11/2012 19:08

I'm not sad, I'm fucking angry (as is my dh)

It's not scriptural, it's not historically accurate - women had full leadership roles in the early church - it's just that simple. It's protectionist and mysognist and they're fucking arses.

I urge anyone who is pissed off to pop over to the Methodist church - who don't have bishes but do have women at all levels of leadership.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 20/11/2012 19:11

I get what you're saying, laurie, but I don't want to be methodist, I want my Church to sort its act out.

(Not having a go at you, you understand, just so fucked off and sad they've not sorted it out.)

seventheaven · 20/11/2012 19:14

I prefer the Goddess.... so do I suburbophobe I cringe at the way male dominated religions treat women, it is not equal.

Theas18 · 20/11/2012 19:16

With lrd . Bloody house of laity. saddened. I can see why though sort of - schism isn't a good thought.

MrsTerryPratchett · 20/11/2012 19:16

We're very equal rights over here in the atheist corner. However, mean piss-taking aside, I feel very sorry for the people who are religious and have to deal with this nonsense. WWJD? Not be a sexist pig, I'd imagine.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 20/11/2012 19:18

Nicely put mrstp.

UdderlyBanal · 20/11/2012 19:21

Disappointed in the CoE. Again.

Some fucking unGodly swearing was required, and will be followed by some unwise wine and ranting.

MaryZezItsOnlyJustNovember · 20/11/2012 19:23

What happens then if a woman priest applies for a vacant bishop post?

And who makes up the lay vote, btw? Can any member of the church vote? And if so, what was the turnout, i.e. did it fail on apathy, or on opinion?

I know I could google, but it's confusing

bigkidsdidit · 20/11/2012 19:24

I am so FUCKING furious

And I am not even religious

I cannot understand what they are doing. How could any woman go to church on Sunday now and put money in the collection box? Surely this is a serious blow to the church

Squitten · 20/11/2012 19:27

The CofE has much bigger problems than women bishops, if this is anything to go by: chriskidd.co.uk/2012/11/14/49-of-uk-anglicans-believe-there-is-a-god/

But stupidity like this is exactly why I turned my back of religion

Nancy66 · 20/11/2012 19:28

ridiculous.

You'd expect this sort of antiquated, sexist, non-sensical bollocks from the catholic church but had higher hopes for the Anglican one

CombustionEngine · 20/11/2012 19:34

I'm CofE and really fucking pissed off.

grovel · 20/11/2012 21:40

The ordained Church hierarchy voted yes. A minority of lay members voted no. Fuckem, I say.

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mmmnoodlesoup · 20/11/2012 21:58

Maybe you should all turn your back on cofe. This is what it boils down to after all

LRDtheFeministDragon · 20/11/2012 21:59

No, I don't think it is.

HumphreyCobbler · 20/11/2012 22:02
Angry

This is appalling.

MsVestibule · 20/11/2012 22:10

So disappointed. I was brought up Catholic, but now attend a CofE church (although my DCs attend a Catholic school, hypocrite that I am). I think the most disappointing thing is that so many lay people that have voted against this. Does anybody know if/when this will be reviewed?

HouseOfBamboo · 20/11/2012 22:11

The thing is, it ISN'T a job like any other. Religion might be a powerful force, but it is exempt from all rules of common sense, logic, etc that any sane and healthy society should be adhering to.

Which is why religion shouldn't be allowed a controlling voice in our democracy.

DrCoconut · 20/11/2012 23:30

It could be scriptural. Didn't St Paul say that women should be silent in church and in submission to their husbands? But most churches have modernised their way of thinking since St Paul was writing well over 1000 years ago and society has moved on a lot. So just as we don't shun women during periods or stone people to death, the idea of women being voiceless is abhorrent to many Christians now. That said, my mum's church doesn't allow women to serve at the altar or even to be readers and none of them would have it any other way.

GrimmaTheNome · 20/11/2012 23:43

I urge anyone who is pissed off to pop over to the Methodist church - who don't have bishes but do have women at all levels of leadership

I've been encouraging disaffected CofE folk to take a look at the URC, they've had women at all levels for yonks and want to be allowed to perform marriages for gay couples.

Fakebook · 20/11/2012 23:45

Hmm I don't know. How is this going to affect you? Do you go to church?

squoosh · 21/11/2012 00:00

Serious misjudegment.

Watching the news this evening I felt so sorry for all those in support of women bishops. It's ok for women to do all the hard work 'on the ground' so to speak but they're unable to take part in any of the glory or any of the decision making?

Effective way to alienate a large proportion of your congregation though!

GrimmaTheNome · 21/11/2012 00:02

I don't go to church but I'm sad that our State religion can perpetuate gender discrimination in the 21st century. That such an organisation is in a position of privelige. That none of the automatic seats that the church gets in the House of Lords is likely to be filled by a woman - an unholy combination of privelige and discrimination.

If we were a secular state without an established church, I'd be sorry for the women who can't be bishops if they wish to be, but otherwise it would be none of my business.