Yeah, I get what you're saying dreamingofsun and HouseOfBamboo, and those were my thoughts too for a long time; it's just been very gradually over the years that I've reached a different understanding. So I don't delude myself that I'm going change anybody's mind with a couple of posts!
I'm not sure what the Church Of England's position is re. the Bible - but I know that different denominations hold different positions. Some churches believe that the Bible merely contains the Word of God; my denomination believes that the Bible in its entirety is the divinely-inspired Word of God, and that's my own understanding of it.
Clearly there are aspects of it that pertain to the society of the time - e.g. polygomy, arranged marriages etc which were not commanded by God but were commmon practices at the time - but the teaching re. women's role in worship is not just something mentioned in passing; it's a direct command. If Christians are just going to pick and choose which Biblical teachings to accept and to reject ones that are less palatable to us on the grounds that "they were written by men" then where do we draw the line, and why bother with the Bible at all?
I guess I maybe come across as being a bit passive, but I don't believe that because the Bible doesn't allow me to have the same role in worship as a man that that makes me inferior. Outside of public worship there's nothing that the Bible permits my husband to do that it doesn't permit me to do.